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TD7 · 26/08/2023 22:24

Is it normal for a guy in their 50s to masturbate 4 times a day ?

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Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 26/08/2023 22:36

I’m in my 40s and can do it three times a day when the mood takes me.

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TD7 · 27/08/2023 07:18

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 26/08/2023 22:36

I’m in my 40s and can do it three times a day when the mood takes me.

I get that but I’m talking everyday without fail

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myNewName21 · 27/08/2023 08:37

TD7 · 26/08/2023 22:24

Is it normal for a guy in their 50s to masturbate 4 times a day ?

I’m in my 50’s and no ( but that’s just me ) , but each man will be different

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Otterhound · 27/08/2023 11:02

maybe when i was a teenager ! But not since then so he must have a super high urge!

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TD7 · 27/08/2023 13:21

Otterhound · 27/08/2023 11:02

maybe when i was a teenager ! But not since then so he must have a super high urge!

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Yes he definitely does …and is it normal for a guy to stay hard for over an hour ??

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TD7 · 27/08/2023 13:23

I don’t see how a guy can masturbate 3 to 4 times a day and cum in his 50s and stay hard for well over an hour ??

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Anotherlurkingmale · 27/08/2023 13:32

I'm a few years younger and would struggle to maintain performance with a partner if I was doing it that often that regular. Regular masturbation is completely normal, natural and healthy but this sounds a bit compulsive. I wonder if there is a porn addiction going on here - as for keeping hard for that amount of time doesn't sound unusual in itself but in context of such regular self relief at that age I would have thought he'd need to be on Viagra or something similar.

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TD7 · 27/08/2023 13:34

Anotherlurkingmale · 27/08/2023 13:32

I'm a few years younger and would struggle to maintain performance with a partner if I was doing it that often that regular. Regular masturbation is completely normal, natural and healthy but this sounds a bit compulsive. I wonder if there is a porn addiction going on here - as for keeping hard for that amount of time doesn't sound unusual in itself but in context of such regular self relief at that age I would have thought he'd need to be on Viagra or something similar.

That’s what I thought tbh

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TD7 · 27/08/2023 13:52

I met a guy on a dating site said he wanted a relationship…when he called me he wanted to have to masturbate I wasn’t having any of it he told me he does it 4 times a day so I just left it wasn’t for me 2 mths later he contacts me again saying he would like to meet up I have to admit I did fancy him like mad it’s was going to be a coffee date but ended up a hotel we had great sex he was amazing please don’t judge we are grown adults lol but he was hard for well over an hour mid 50s he was very considerate I’m just baffled how high his sex drive is if I get a message at 6am saying morning and I answered he would want me to talk him through it …I don’t think he wants a relationship as now I find out through my own homework he’s very rich and I’m not he wants to see me again but I feel interior….he doesn’t know I know …I’m thinking I’m just his bit of rough …..

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myNewName21 · 27/08/2023 13:58

TD7 · 27/08/2023 13:23

I don’t see how a guy can masturbate 3 to 4 times a day and cum in his 50s and stay hard for well over an hour ??

The refractory period varies from person to person. While the refractory period tends to increase with age, other factors may influence the time a person cannot have sex again, such as their cardiovascular health.
Meds like Viagra might help but that just be normal for him.

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Biggyfoot · 27/08/2023 14:41

I don't see why 4 times a day is out of the question, if he's staying hard for an hour each time though he's got to be taking something.
It does make you wonder what he's getting achieved if he devotes so much time and effort to knocking one out.

I think you're right to be careful with your time and emotional attachment, from everything you've said it does appear his interest is very narrow

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TD7 · 27/08/2023 15:31

I don’t see why he needed to see me he’s super rich and could get anyone I live in a modest 3 bed detached and feel way below him mind you I guess he isn’t interested in that only sex

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maclen · 27/08/2023 17:08

He's probably taking testosterone. Does he go to the gym ?

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TD7 · 27/08/2023 17:42

maclen · 27/08/2023 17:08

He's probably taking testosterone. Does he go to the gym ?

No he doesn’t go to the gym but he must take something

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Custardslices · 01/09/2023 08:01

I've had a partner who could stay hard for that long, admittedly I was doing things infront of him for a while. I loved it.

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TD7 · 01/09/2023 17:26

Custardslices · 01/09/2023 08:01

I've had a partner who could stay hard for that long, admittedly I was doing things infront of him for a while. I loved it.

I don’t stuff too but an hour and a half is a long time and wanks up to 3 to 4 times a day ?

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sexbolt · 01/09/2023 18:17

Late fifties here, an hour with pleasant company, four times without, entirely doable.

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TD7 · 01/09/2023 20:47

sexbolt · 01/09/2023 18:17

Late fifties here, an hour with pleasant company, four times without, entirely doable.

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Alba82 · 02/09/2023 01:06

At 50 my hubby could stay hard for an hour at least, but as for actually ejaculating, whether through masturbation, oral or piv, i can only say once or twice a day. Honestly sounds like he's definitely taking something

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Zanatdy · 06/09/2023 06:50

Last guy I dated was 49 and he stayed hard well over an hour, last time I seen him we had sex for 90 mins. So perfectly possible to stay hard for that length of time.

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Simon12 · 06/09/2023 15:54

As an active 58 year old with an equally active wife we can manage once a day ongoing sometimes twice a day but then probably need a break of a day when I was younger with a much less active wife I used to wank most days sometimes up to 3 or four times but not now in my 50’s !

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35dadof2kent · 06/09/2023 19:32

I'm 35 and I couldn't manage more than three in a day and that's it they were spread out from 6am to 10pm lol

Mans got some stamina he must be ejaculating dust if it's going off that often

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Sparkybloke · 08/09/2023 14:14

I'm 58...when alone I masturbate probably 3 or 4 times a week. Sometimes twice a day but often a few days between sessions. If I know I'm meeting my girl I'll abstain for several days...

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Blushingm · 08/09/2023 19:54

DP can - we both have high sex drives. I know he masturbates multiple times a day. He enjoys edging though so doesn't cum each time

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TD7 · 10/09/2023 08:16

35dadof2kent · 06/09/2023 19:32

I'm 35 and I couldn't manage more than three in a day and that's it they were spread out from 6am to 10pm lol

Mans got some stamina he must be ejaculating dust if it's going off that often

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