Sexual Attraction

[Diamondsarentmybestfriend]

I am a 39 YO female, I am married with kids. I no longer feel sexually attracted towards my husband, I think this may be part of our previous issues but I also think I may have outgrown the marriage and naturally the loss of attraction for him has gone.
Is there a way to get this back, I know if I were to be honest and tell him, he would be deeply upset and would end the marriage.

Oh dear God 🙄

She says she does have kids. And that’s a weird thing to say.

What a crazy stupid thing to say. And irrelevant because she does have kids.

How does having kids solve any problems? Are they a magical pill? What a regressive thought, that does not even apply here.

Getting back on track...
You need to try and work out what it is that has changed about you or him to cause the loss of desire.
It could be situational. The fact that you're bound to have so much on your hands with work and home life (you refers to both you and him). You need to treasure your relationship as much as you treasure your children. Set time aside, exploit whatever support you have in terms of childcare and enjoy yourselves as adults if you can.