Do you clean up?

[ItIsSleeping]

Reading another thread, this has me pondering...

If you have PIV sex at night, before bed, without using a condom, do you then get out of bed to 'clean up' or do you just go to sleep? I've always just gone to sleep and nothing much seems to leak out of me overnight so it's just a bit of a dash to the bathroom in the morning!

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I go to the toilet and do a wee to avoid uti’s

I've never had a UTI in my life 🤷‍♀️ If I were prone then i am sure I'd get up too.

I suppose it would be more intimate not having to get up after making love, and also just having it in there would be sensual

I wait a bit before cleaning up. Usually we are still enjoying the moment. I like being touched with cum inside also. But I definitely don't sleep with it, always wash it off.

I lie in bed for a bit and then get up to pee. You should always do that as it flushes out any bacteria that gets round your urethra. I'm not prone to UTIs either, I think I've had 2 in my lifetime but they were both after a night of sex and alcohol when I couldn't be bothered to get up to pee.

My BDW isn't the most fond of liquids so will grab a couple of proffered tissues and John Wayne it to the bathroom

It depends on the moment really. If we're in that delicious post-sex drifty-off to sleep in each others arms situation then probably no clean-up. If we're still reasonably awake and it's going to distract from sleep then a quick wipe just to sort things out.

Depends on the quality of the sheets and bed.

Always go for a wee and clean up with tissue. My ex used to have a shower!

Im with you OP and have always have just went to sleep 🙈

No, like pp I grab a wad of tissue to hold back the dam as dh pulls out and then waddle off to the loo to have a wee and to wipe myself. Dh makes the bed or tidies up wherever we've been before then going to wash himself. We cuddle a lot but not usually after sex. I like the idea of just curling up in his arms and falling asleep, like they talk about in the raunchy stories, but I can't do it. It feels too uncomfortable and I get too fidgety.

It's interesting that some women seem to be physically different. My first girlfriend never had an issue. We had sex and went to sleep with no leakage. However with my wife we have sex, I withdraw and it's Niagara falls so she has to to the toilet waddle.

There was only about 5 years difference in age. GF was younger at about 19-20.

I don't think age has anything to do with it. At times, some of it will leak out as soon as I stand up, other times it will come out slowly over the next day, but it will come out eventually, there's nowhere else for it to go. I think the volume of the semen released might be something to do with it.

I tend to enjoy cuddling/enjoying the bliss afterwards for a bit. Then go have a quick clean up. I've found if I'm on the pill or have the implant in for contraception then I leak a whole lot. Even the morning after cleaning up I can still leak....
If I'm not on contraception however, much less leakage.

My ex husband produced so little seaman that there was nothing to clear up. Nothing on the sheets barely a trace in me, even when he pulled out and finished on my stomach it was a girly dribble. I just rolled over and went to sleep

So... I did not know that was a common thing? I've never experienced anything leaking out of me... Just sometimes overly wet during/after sex and may need to dry that up but not the other thing. I tend to stay in bed and go to sleep unless I need a wee desperately.

Is this unusual?