Casual Sex

[JenD0746]

Anyone here into casual sex/one night stands?

I really enjoy the challenge of one night stands.

Yep I love the challenge too..

I've never had a ONS but I can see the appeal

Tried it, found it a bit like eating a plate of cream cakes, great at the time but leaves me bilious after.

Puzzled by "challange" ?

I think I'd be a bit self conscious but would prob enjoy it in a weird way. I'd def have to fancy the pants of them though

Casual/ONS is good fun but it’s only temporary, a FWB is better in my opinion. Also confused by it being a challenge? Do you mean the challenge as in finding someone or making the person orgasm?

Randomly I always wonder how it all works, do you go back to his/her house, shag then have that awkward scramble to get out quick? How does it all
Play out lol

Challenge? Are you really ugly or something? Fairly easy to have lots of one night stands, the least challenging thing ever really.

Definitely. Hasnt happened recently enough for my liking tho.

I used to enjoy it. I went through a phase of a different guy every weekend. It's the novelty of having someone different each time. But now I'm older and content it's not for me anymore. I need a connection that's more than just sexual.

A FWB is far better in my opinion 🤷‍♀️.
We both understand it's just a bit of fun and we don't want a relationship so it works well for us

Why is having a ONS a challenge?

I’ve never had a ONS (only been with my husband) but I can’t see how it could be better than sex in a long term relationship (or perhaps a FWB situation), where you know each other inside out (literally 🤣) and can laugh when things don’t go as expected and can feel as secure and comfortable as you possibly could with another person. I do realise not all relationships are like that but that’s my situation.

I can see that a ONS would be exciting at the time.

What is challenging about a one night stand? I don’t know anyone who has struggled to have one. Weird thread.

I’ve never enjoyed one night stands. Well I might have enjoyed the sex but the next day I always felt totally rubbish. Also the sex was never that great and I was always wary, I’d rather have sex with someone I love or at least am in a relationship of sorts with. That way the sex is a lot better as you know what each other like. Each to their own, no judgment at all, I’ve just never been able to enjoy them

The ones I’ve had they always stayed the night, usually had sex again in the morning when a bit more sober

Cool13 I have reported your DMs! Twat!

mm
no idea if DMs were offensive/over the top, but maybe not too surprising that you got one after your post above.
in case anyone wonders BTW, I haven't sent one.

Not massively offensive to me to be honest. Just unsolicited, and going MN's recent confirmation of the PM situation. I think I was probably more highlighting what had happened as a bit of a warning to other posters.

Ugh. This topic is just a cesspit

not entirely sure what MN line is on PMs is to be honest. Not even sure why PMs exist if polite ones are thrown back.
Anyways, my point as above - maybe you should have put a tagline - no PMs - or I think maybe you can switch them off selectively?

as I think many - women men - have said - why are you here then?
It's a sex topic.
Must say though I know nowt about the OP.

No challenge in ONS, the challenge is remaining in a loving relationship of which sex is a key part.

Sorry but any woman can find a man to shag, I value myself way too much for that.

Also, have you heard of STDs?

And yet every post you make in this topic adds to the traffic.

The more traffic the better for MNHQ.

I'm reminded of people who say they hate the Daily Mail, yet can't stop reading it, thus adding to the traffic there too.