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Fwb change in sexual pattern

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Naivetohope · 13/07/2023 17:23

I've posted elsewhere before about having potential feelings for him but if I'm honest I think I'm maybe going off him a bit now. Don't know if that's really true or if it's just a reaction to believing he's not that into me, and I'm a bit pissed off about something that actually I have no real right to be but can't help it.

I've noticed recently that when we have sex it's not lasting as long as it used to, but I'm not meaning premature ejaculation at all, he always lasted quite a long time it's just not as long as it used to be, it's still a good amount of time, he's favouring one or 2 positions rather than the variety there used to be, there's less foreplay, less after play. It's still good, still satisfying, but the change has me concerned.

Possibly an age thing? Possibly other stresses? Or another indicator he's not so into me? (Although he seems to come harder now? Another difference I'm not sure what to make of?)

Would appreciate female and male perspectives please?

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Naivetohope · 14/07/2023 19:17

Sundance I appreciate the fwb isn't for everyone but generally speaking it mostly suits me and others too.

I've been hurt terribly in supposedly traditional relationships too. Admittedly mostly men!

Averageguy if you're comfortable with it I'm fine to pm you.

Sucks going through essentially a break up and can't talk to anyone about it cos nobody really knows?

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AverageGuy · 14/07/2023 20:47

@Naivetohope feel free. Happy to help if I can.

Naivetohope · 23/07/2023 20:06

I've replied to pms thanks to those who took the time to get in touch and thanks to all who replied and listened.

My head is still a mess and I don't know what to do next.

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