Faking It

[Deescot]

Genuine question out to wives, girlfriends and partners. Can women cum after only a few minutes. My wife needs clitoral stimulation rather that just piv to climax. Our ' usual ' end to sex is me cumming inside and using hand stimulation to allow her to climax. I can understand with this after piv sex that she may well cum quickly. Similarly finishing with oral sex after piv and other stimulation causes her to cum quickly but when we start sex with me going down on her she still cums in a couple of minutes, very quickly, leading me to worry that she is faking it. Can women really cum that quickly?

Yes, speaking from personal experience. Sometimes I think I suffer from the female equivalent of PE 😳.

Even now it still shocks my husband sometimes. The first time he touched me I came so quickly (literally just laid a finger on me) that was way too embarrassed to tell him!

So, yes, you can believe it, although I don’t know how common it is.

@Deescot i think her body is telling you that her favourite kind of stimulation is oral! Yes, women can orgasm very quickly if they’re in the right headspace!

Yes very much so.

This - it sounds like she really enjoys oral. Keep it up 😁

Yes it's possible. With clitoral I need a few minutes to build up the orgasm. Once I've came once, other orgasms happen quicker. With a G spot orgasm, I can cum almost instantly without foreplay if the stimulation is right.

Oh yes, very quickly

Yep

Depends entirely on where my head is at..! If I'm horny and he pushes the right buttons, it takes moments.

Yes!

Oh yes definitely, I often try and stop myself from coming to early but since experimenting with vibrators realised I can come again soon after so now I don’t hold back. I can come quickly with oral, especially if turned on (eg before PIV, foreplay)

Oh bugger off the lot of you with your speedy and multiple orgasms. Humpf.

I'm so envious!

We absolutely can 😊

Yes. Its completely normal. It frequently only takes me about 5 minutes or less to orgasm. Once it was about 30 seconds 🙈

Instant orgasm for me on my G spot if I have foreplay to other areas first. Clit takes a little longer but still only a few mins tops if using a vibe. My wife is the same.

I have never orgasmed with a man. Ever. Even with someone who brought out the animal in me (ha ha). I don’t touch my clit to come either! I must be wired all wrong!!

@72dotcom Same to the first bit. I'm not sure even if a guy played with me for two hours I'd cum 🤣 It genuinely doesn't bother me but that seems to be a guys 'goal' so then I end up feeling guilty that I don't