Threesome

[KirstenMacadam1974]

Looking for advice, I’m keen to try a threesome with DH and another guy but not sure how to find a guy!. Our sex life has been non existent for a few years so I thought this might spice it up. I love the thought of it and he seems keen too. I’d prefer it to be with someone we don’t know but no idea where to look!!!

Just my opinion, but I'd work on getting your 'normal' sex life back on track before venturing into this. Threesomes take alot of trust etc.

+1

Most couples use threesomes as an added extra. Swinging as a "sticking plaster" doesn't work. It's been proved time and time again.

Work at the twosome before the threesome.

^^ this

If you are both looking for a little extra spice in a relationship that is otherwise healthy then there are plenty of swinging/casual hookup sites online. Im sure any will do. Just find one or two and post an Ad.

Just be sure that you are both sure about what you are getting into and not trying to fix deeper issues with a quick fix.

DP and I have threesomes, foursomes and moresomes. It only works if you trust each other explicitly and have really honest communication.

Using it as a way to spice up a dead sex life is a recipe for disaster. One or both of you will end up jealous and insecure.

We use swingingheaven and Fab.

Plenty of people on those and you can filter according to distances, etc, to make sure you don't bump into people locally.

I do agree with the other comments though regarding getting back on track yourselves before involving others...