I need to get over this...

[DontBeBitterGlitter2023]

Someone I really liked, we were friends before the line was crossed, never saw him like that whatsoever. Turns out he was trying to win his ex back the whole time so now there's no trust and to be honest now...

BUT

He was genuinely the best sex I've ever had. Just looking at him got me going and wanting to rip his clothes off. I've never had that connection with anyone before and always struggled to orgasm before I got with him!

Now it's all over and done with and am missing that brief amazing sex life that I had! I need to get over this but struggling...

Yes, you really do need to get over him. No matter how good he was in bed remember that he was using you. You are worth so much more than that. I hope you’re ok xx

It’s tough. The guy I dated earlier this year was the best sex I’ve ever had and that made it harder when we called things off for a while (lack of time on his side - young kids). It took me a couple of months to stop thinking about him (and sex) all the time; then work went manic and that helped. Then he’s started texting me again recently now and then. I know he’s free in the summer for a week or two and it will be so tough to turn down a week or two of great sex every night! But I need to make sure I don’t get hurt. I feel for you. That’s a really shitty thing for him to do