Deep throating

[bathsh3ba]

I'm early 40s. Up until my most recent relationship no man had ever asked me to deepthroat. The idea doesn't appeal to me and I associate it with porn. However my ex seemed to see it as part of normal oral. I refused. So I'm interested to see how many people agree with him that it's mainstream. And is it worth me trying one day?

Is it normal? No idea, I can’t do it, well I assume I can’t and haven’t tried. I guess “normal” in sex is entirely subjective, what I think it might be could be the exact opposite for you.

I adore being deep-throated. I don't want a woman to gag on me; I don't find this attractive in any way. It isn't a power trip for me, it is about the sensation of being deep inside a throat. I have only met one woman about whom it could truly be said that she had totally overcome her gag reflex. She was an amazing oral partner and although I was a fan of deep-throating before meeting her, it must be said that I became a devotee after experiencing her talent.

I wonder whether those men who aren't that fond of deep-throating have ever received a BJ from a talented and willing fellatrix.

I like it, but then I have a bit of a thing for being made to feel like I’m being .. used? I don’t know I’m weird I think 😅

no probs
but still interested in replies to questions.
ie - your research/knowledge base.

I could as easily start a quiz on your standing in the issue too.

Jolly boring it would get too.

No probs.
Not obligatory to answer polite questions.
But conclusions drawn.
When a bit more time and on a proper keyboard may well contribute my own experiences/thoughts.
If you think nattering about sex boring maybe you shouldn't be here.
Your choice.

"conclusions drawn" hahahahaha

sorry, I didn't realise the Stasi HQ was now in Pendle.

because i know my DH would never hurt me or do anything I wasn't comfortable with, the occasions when his penis ends up 'rammed' deep in my throat make him feel all the more sexy to me, he is being sexually dominating with consent in that moment, I think it's a fairly common turn on to a lot of women.

I think men enjoy you trying to go as far as you can. I can't go deep on my kids dad he's too massive, makes me gag just getting past the bellend 😂but others I throated. Never really had them ask me for it I just went for it.

An ex GF used to deep throat me a lot, I don’t think there were any sensations, but it certainly looked good to me , very visual.

@acpk55 yes! My DP is very responsive to visual stimuli too! It’s great to know your partner’s preferences so they can be emphasised during sex.

@Mermaidparades
Yes, seeing her nose just about touching me was a sight to behold and certainly turned me on 😀

This happens quite naturally for us every once in a while. I never specifically ask for it but DW I think just does it on impulse as part of oral lovemaking. When it's happening I take care to be as still as possible with no hint of thrusting and allowing her to be in total control (as is actually the case whenever she's giving me oral) as I'm very aware that she's needing consciously to relax her throat muscles when taking me deeply. It seems natural enough to me. It's certainly very, very pleasant, mutually enjoyable and part of the fun of sex play.

I'm a bloke and i've had been deepthroated a few times , i'm not big around 6.5" on a good day . To me it was the visual rather than the feeling of it