What happens when…

[Derelicthome]

For men, what happens when you’ve seen a women’s completely naked body (in detail) but not had sex with her.
There is I guess an assumption in media that once a man has had sex with a women that sort of challenge and drive to be with her goes/dissipates somewhat. Is it the same if you have seen ‘everything’ but not had sex?

I'm a woman but it makes me want it more.

It totally depends. It could kill thr allure I guess

As a man the answer is no

Why do you guess that the media assumes this is the case ? It's a very odd thing to come up with

Not convinced the drive tone with someone goes just because you’ve had sex or seen them naked

I am not convinced by this. In my experience having great sex with someone makes you want them more. Having crap sex with them makes you want them less, even if they're objectively "hot". I'm not a man though.

Not sure where you've got the idea that the media assumes this..? Is it just your perception, perhaps?

Of course the thrill of the unknown is exciting and many men (and women) enjoy "the chase". But I don't think the desire to be intimate with someone disappears just because you've had sex with them. If you've had great sex, you'd usually want more of it!

We really need more context to understand the question...

I guess I was thinking more in the situation where the sex is average, it’s a one night stand situation and where there’s no connection.

The question still makes absolutely no sense to me

Context is I’m the patient. He’s the surgeon. He will see everything. I’ll have to see him socially on the rare occasion in the future. Was wondering from a man’s point of view, will he feel like he’s ‘had’ me. I just feel like there’s going to be this awkwardness afterwards like how one might feel after an average one night stand.

Sorry it’s all a bit stupid, and I’m definitely overthinking the situation.

I've seen thousands of patients genitalia and more; believe me, there's nothing erotic about a naked body in an operating theatre.

Did you have another thread about this surgeon? I'm sure I remember reading something similar. I'm sure you don't need to worry and he will be professional about things. It's his job and he'll see bodies all the time.

what is it about surgeons?

anyways, still confused by the question - bloke seen you naked but no sex (a somewhat odd scenario unless surgeon card played) but then also parallel scenario with poor one night sex.

It was a bad analogy. Sorry

You think a surgeon seeing you naked is comparable to a no-strings one night stand? Because both involve a naked body and no emotion? Well no, you're wrong.

If you're uncomfortable with the idea of someone you know socially seeing your naked body, go to a different surgeon.

Surgeons don't see everything, only the bit operating on. By the time they arrive in theatre, sterile surgical drapes cover all surrounding areas. They turn up, perform there act, then leave. Everything is prepped just right prior to their arrival, including what music to put on. So your fears are actually baseless and irrational.

@Opentooffers
Bloody hell !!! I want to work in your theatres ..... it's DIY in mine !! 😂