FWB Question

[FWBQuestion]

Those who have had or have a FWB, how did you find one and how did it start, did you chat for a while and build a connection, or did you chat and start a sexual relationship within a short-time and did you meet in hotels?

I had one in my mid 20s. We met on a night out and had what I thought would be a one night stand. Bumped into him in the same bar a week later and slept together again. Then we would just have drunken hook ups every once in a while in his flat. He wasn't suitable for a long term relationship with me but he was cute and nice company and he liked the fact I was a bit older. The sex was ok. We never communicated in between meeting up and it would always be a spur of the moment thing. I fall in love and get attached easily so it would never have worked if we were having cosy date nights and all that.

I have one now! We met on Feeld initially and kept chatting, then moved to what's app but he was abroad for work, then Xmas got in the way and then train strikes. We eventually met for drink in real life mid January, got on like a house on fire and have met every two weeks for amazing sex in one of our local travelodges ever since - long may it continue!

Meant to add we have a really good connection and we're both quite fond of each other. Tricky living situations for both us means it can't turn into much more at the moment but I'm fine with that

Thank you for all of your answers.