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ShockingNameChange · 23/04/2023 14:57

I was looking for advice about how to spice up my solo life. I’ve been single for two years but that doesn’t mean my libido went away lol. Whilst I love what I’m doing currently (nothing special) I’ve decided that I’d like to spice it up a bit in any way possible. Does anyone have any ideas?

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Whatliesbeneath707 · 23/04/2023 17:00

Follow Hello Jenny Keane on Instagram. She often discusses solo practice & might be able to offer some ideas.

Tallguy101 · 23/04/2023 17:15

What would you like to do? Different toys? Try a swingers club?

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ShockingNameChange · 23/04/2023 17:32

Whatliesbeneath707 · 23/04/2023 17:00

Follow Hello Jenny Keane on Instagram. She often discusses solo practice & might be able to offer some ideas.

I don’t have insagram but thank you for the recommendation I’ll still try and have a look!

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ShockingNameChange · 23/04/2023 17:43

Tallguy101 · 23/04/2023 17:15

What would you like to do? Different toys? Try a swingers club?

Probably nothing like swinging as I’m too new to most things and too anxious for that (at least for now). So any toy recomendations or advice would be great

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Whatliesbeneath707 · 23/04/2023 17:46

Jenny Keane has a website you can look at - search using her name.

Tallguy101 · 23/04/2023 21:51

ShockingNameChange · 23/04/2023 17:43

Probably nothing like swinging as I’m too new to most things and too anxious for that (at least for now). So any toy recomendations or advice would be great

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Try websites for Ann Summers, Lovehoney or maybe sextoys.co.uk for some ideas. Plenty out there, it all depends on what you want. If looking for a FWB or FB then try a separate post on here.

AbsolutePixels · 24/04/2023 00:21

I'm not really into fancy sex toys, but I recently bought myself a dildo because I miss that 'full' feeling.

Tallguy101 · 24/04/2023 06:17

AbsolutePixels · 24/04/2023 00:21

I'm not really into fancy sex toys, but I recently bought myself a dildo because I miss that 'full' feeling.

Well you could always get yourself a FWB or FB to help with those feelings.

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ShockingNameChange · 24/04/2023 07:06

AbsolutePixels · 24/04/2023 00:21

I'm not really into fancy sex toys, but I recently bought myself a dildo because I miss that 'full' feeling.

@AbsolutePixels Yeah I get what you mean I do have just a simple vibrator that I use for that.

@Tallguy101 I think with looking after DS a FWB wouldn’t be a good idea because it could complicate the household. I’ve not tried a strictly fwb before. I’ll have a nosy on Ann summers thank you

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SaveTheLastDance · 24/04/2023 09:15

Tallguy101 · 24/04/2023 06:17

Well you could always get yourself a FWB or FB to help with those feelings.

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That ‘full’ feeling can be hard to find 😕

goodf · 27/04/2023 17:37

You could always branch out into anal play OP to add something extra and different to your solo exploratory sessions. Various suitable toys are readily available from the usual vendors and are inexpensive.

Another commonly overlooked option is to get yourself some nice lingerie to make you feel extra sexy and good about yourself during your play sesh. Xx

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ShockingNameChange · 27/04/2023 17:48

goodf · 27/04/2023 17:37

You could always branch out into anal play OP to add something extra and different to your solo exploratory sessions. Various suitable toys are readily available from the usual vendors and are inexpensive.

Another commonly overlooked option is to get yourself some nice lingerie to make you feel extra sexy and good about yourself during your play sesh. Xx

Yes I’ve thought more and mire about purchasing and trying some anal toys

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goodf · 27/04/2023 17:54

@ShockingNameChange I splurged on the extra toys basically because mine and DHs libidos are quite mismatched at times and I was getting frustrated.

Honestly, one of the best purchases i've made

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