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Fuck buddy

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lele11 · 19/03/2023 14:48

Has anyone actually had a successful fuck buddy?

All the stories I've heard it puts me off

Also do you tend to stay round their house or is that not how it works

Thanks

Sar

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OfcourseitsaNC · 16/04/2023 06:26

My thing about FWB is where does that stop and relationship begin?

I had one for a few years. We did lots of "dates", fun days out, meals, cinema. Sex was great. Very open about our lives. How is that not a relationship where you just don't live together and have no intention of doing so?

jaystone · 16/04/2023 06:45

@OfcourseitsaNC I think it's down to the people involved you can't be intimate without feelings otherwise it's just dead but there is a fine line.

My lady fwb or fb whatever you want to call it was married had no interest in leaving her partner so it worked well.

bedtimeisthebest · 16/04/2023 11:01

jaystone · 16/04/2023 06:45

@OfcourseitsaNC I think it's down to the people involved you can't be intimate without feelings otherwise it's just dead but there is a fine line.

My lady fwb or fb whatever you want to call it was married had no interest in leaving her partner so it worked well.

I fully agree. My wife and I will never leave each other and my FwB and her FB both know we are married and this is the situation.

My FwB did once tell my wife that she knows I'll never leave her, that is what she wants and is happy that her relationship with me is what it is

NaughtyCheatingWife · 16/04/2023 18:44

It works really well if both parties are married as you go into it with no expectations of a relationship. You both know it is what it is. Emotional connections definitely still form between you and your fwb but you know they’re not going to leave their spouse so it’s limited to that.

NaughtyCheatingWife · 16/04/2023 18:55

NaughtyCheatingWife · 16/04/2023 18:44

It works really well if both parties are married as you go into it with no expectations of a relationship. You both know it is what it is. Emotional connections definitely still form between you and your fwb but you know they’re not going to leave their spouse so it’s limited to that.

@OfcourseitsaNC sorry that reply was for you

OfcourseitsaNC · 16/04/2023 20:23

So what you're saying then @NaughtyCheatingWife & @bedtimeisthebest is that I need to be married/in a LTR to have a good FWB arrangement?

Erm... 🤣

NaughtyCheatingWife · 16/04/2023 21:38

@OfcourseitsaNC I don't think you ‘need’ to be, no, but from my experience it definitely helps. The boundaries are clearly defined from the start for both parties. Catching feelings isn’t really an option, and you just enjoy it for what it is.

bedtimeisthebest · 17/04/2023 05:54

@OfcourseitsaNC
No you don't need to be but it has really helped us.,
Our love for each other is much deeper and stronger in the knowledge that we will always have each other.

As @NaughtyCheatingWife says, boundaries for feelings are well established. We all know feelings won't develop are we're happy for each other to be intimate with others.

NDerbys32 · 24/04/2023 12:14

Thanks for all contributing to this thread. Food for thought indeed.

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