Failure to orgasm

[Suori]

Maybe not the best time to be asking this. My bf of two years is unable to come with me. Doubtless due to some past experiences he's told me about. That's what he puts it down to anyway. We're looking at some sort of counselling/therapy. Preferably low cost. Is Relate still the go to organisation for this? Any more ideas, anyone?

Does he watch porn ?

I was going to say porn too…

look up death grip

Haha. Thanks. I forgot about the death grip. No, I don't think it's that. OK. Slightly more detail. I'm being very cautious and have name changed because of the recent publicity given to the sex board. Because of disabilities we have to be inventive with what we do together. Nothing particularly shocking but we can't do PIV without so much pain we'd rather not. I don't want to go into everything but his previous partner was disgusted and he can't let go of the humiliation. Hence after all this time looking for outside help. We don't need ideas on what to do together. Just looking for appropriate counselling.

Relate is good, but you need to check with your local Relate provider that they have psychosexual therapists not just general relationship counselling.
The cost is often on a sliding scale depending on income I think. Good luck