Expectation vs reality 😂

[Judeisnotobscure]

It seems to be popular in porn at the moment for men to slap their penis on the woman’s clitoris. To me it’s not visually pleasing but I accept that I’m probably just a bit out of touch! I imagine it doesn’t feel particularly stimulating either. Magazine articles always instruct that a man’s perineum is very sensitive and enjoys being licked, but however hard I try my DP doesn’t get any enjoyment from it! Does anyone have any other pleasurable suggestions for things to try on either partner?

@Judeisnotobscure me and my Fwb made love on Valentine’s Day and after we had both climaxed and I finished inside her pic we cuddled and I got horny again so asked if I could wank with her sat cowgirl and rub against her vulva.

Once she sat astride of me I couldn’t help but put the tip in a little and it felt amazing after taking it out and putting it back in she was very very wet like nothing before and she just plunged down and rode me to another orgasm for her and she said it was amazing. It’s very rare she cums a second time and said this one was so strong as I had been teasing her.

Maybe try this?

@Andypandy799 holy shit, that sounds hot!!

@Judeisnotobscure Stopped looking at anything before 1989 porn wise as it all gets rough and I/we don't enjoy it. Have no idea what the slappy thing is all about sounds completely counter productive to me.

@Andypandy799 we've done this a few times and whilst it's an amazing visual turn on for me I get most from how much my DW enjoys it.

For me the top/front of my helm is the most sensitive and pleasurable and whether it's tongue or wet fingers it blows my mind. I've notice circular motions with a thumb here totally sends signals everywhere (the firmer and wetter the better)!!

Also new Rabbit ears in the same place when wet is frikkin glorious!!

Oh and we have a new shower head on the bath and the water that comes out is a little spikey (if that makes sense?) and does amazing things too.

Report back and good luck!!

It was as I was so surprised she wanted it so bad again.

Most porn doesn't work for me for this kind of reason. I don't want to slap my penis and I don't want to spit on a vagina as if I'm trying to get rid of phlegm from my mouth.

These things, for me personally, do nothing at all. I wouldn't do it myself.

I like to be able to relate to a scene and imagine myself in it. I think this is where the porn v reality thing comes in and why its dangerous for young people to use porn as a learning tool!

@Rieslinger you’re like my personal guru! I love your advice! Xx

@Judeisnotobscure Share and share alike, no point in someone finding something out and not letting others potentially get the benefits!!

Thanks for the boob job idea btw!

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Not everyone likes the same things, to be sure, and most porn these days is just eeewwww, but, I've been with a lady that liked having her pussy / clit slapped - she said the sensations were incredible.

Maybe don't knock it until you've tried it?

The same lady also got off (and I mean well & truly off!) on sitting astride me, and using me to masturbate me, and herself (no penetration) - that was amazing for both of us..

Each to their own though!

@AverageGuy Will do mate, but if I get punched by my wife later...😝

@Andypandy799 That sounds amazing, not sure my partner would ever suggest anything like this.