Asking for it? Clothing..

[Thisisnotmyname2022]

www.chicme.com/product/PU%20Leather%20Zipper%20Pocket%20Design%20Skinny%20Pants/127eb612-3fdf-40d6-9d84-fa5867b14e4c.html

I really like these…. Would it be obvious that I was looking for a bit of fun?

Nah, I'd assume you had IBS and needed quick access of similar.

Fair..

Wearing clothes that suggest ‘you’re asking for it’ seems a bit risky in the current climate.

Ugh, You’d be all sweaty and smelly within ten minutes of putting them on. You might be asking for it but I wouldn’t give it to you.

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Keep a look out on the charity shops.
Sam Smith might donate his....

The only thing you're asking for in those is thrush.

Sorry, what do you mean by the thread title?! Sexual assualt/rape? And then you're "up for fun"? Please clarify.

They're hideous regardless. Imagine getting a pube or a flap stuck in the zip by accident

Wear what you like when you like . As little as you’re happy with or as much. It’s no bodies business and a display of skin doesn’t say asking for it. Your voice will ask if you want it . Flaunt what you have and be proud .

Asking for what can I ask?

Probably a better way you could have worded that.

Asking for it meaning anything at all . Your clothing doesn’t ask for anything whether it be sexual or none sexual. Worded correctly. The only way you ask for anything is by saying it and stating what you want .

so that was kind of my point..,

I like them, would obviously wear underwear with them as by god they would be warm, however a friend suggests I would be asking for it….

And yes she meant it would be my own fault if I attracted unwanted attention and rape.

I however like to think I could walk the streets naked and I wouldn’t be asking for it.

Ignore the friend. Issues clearly are all theirs .

I totally agree. Naked says natural , proud, sexy, stunning and many other things but in no way does it say touch, help yourself or rape me. You be who you want to be always .

I'd be worried some weirdo would have easy access to your backside with you having no control.

This might be more subtle, unless it's the kind of club that rejects subtle.
www.chicme.com/product/PU%20Leather%20Zipper%20Pocket%20Design%20Skinny%20Pants/127eb612-3fdf-40d6-9d84-fa5867b14e4c.html

They’re the same ones

Why though? Regardless of what someone is wearing, no one would have easy access unless consented. Am I really that naive?

Not naive at all . They only show the top crack of your bum so no easy access. And like I’ve said previously access only comes when and as granted. Most people admire from afar so to speak I’m sure the odd idiot can be dealt with and told where to go .,

From a blokes perspective they’d certainly make me look twice, but so does a shapely bum in leggings ,but asking for it, what an awful place it’s become if either sex can’t wear what they feel good in without people thinking that and if your looking for fun that’s upto you, doesn’t give anyone the right to think you’re asking for it

@Thisisnotmyname2022 that's the thing. Not everyone thinks they need consent. If we did the world would be this perfect place. But unfortunately not everyone works that way. Some people think they're entitled. You can look but can't touch doesn't work for them. It's more I'll look and I'm entitled to touch.

@Thisisnotmyname2022 They look amazing and yes be careful and pull the zip away when doing/undoing.

Might be less obvious if the zip wasn't such a contrasting colour or smaller scale like you get with some skirts/trousers.

If my DW put these on and suggested we go for a woody walk I'd have grabbed the blanket and be in the car before she had finished looking for her coat, amazing!