Using my breasts

[Judeisnotobscure]

I’m planning a massage night for DP and I for this evening and was thinking it might be nice since we’ll both be slippery to use my breasts to masturbate him at the end. I know the current term for this but I don’t want to use it, it’s kinda crude!
I haven’t done this in about 20 years, I remember it used to feel really good for both of us. Does anyone have any tips to make the technique go smoothly?

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I remember a time very early on when we were married and we had an ancient hand-me-down bed got from somewhere or other, which had wooden legs two of which, creaking beyond endurance one night, decided to snap off simultaneously when we were at height of passion.

We were both at the point of no return and concluded things at a 45 degree angle. It was ludicrous. We laughed and laughed. The next day we went to IKEA for a new bed which we still have to this day....

Those moments are the best, they bind us together, become our shared history

Or possibly you did fine, just took him by surprise, and now he's thinking 'actually that was hot.'

I don't see how it's possible to have a bad technique for this - breasts are what they are, after all.

I'm wondering if @Catullus5 could be making a good point? After all, you say it's been 20 years since you last did this. Is it worth having another go when a good moment arises? It would be a shame not to follow up on a renewed area of pleasure if it's just that it's something he wasn't expecting?

Yes, I will warn him beforehand! Ooh, maybe send him a text when he’s at work. I’ll give it another shot!

totally give it another go, it sounds like the surprise element maybe?! A cheeky text sounds a plan

Absolutely! Sounds like a great idea!

If my DW text me that I'd be 😃all day at work 😆Super productive.
Go for it

@yorkshireteabagman the anticipation is tantalising! Why don’t you take the lead and send your DW a text ?

Personally don't believe she would appreciate it popping up during her work! I don't think she's that way inclined. Friday night after a few wines possibly 😅

Ah fair enough!

Lovehoney do a thicker lube (think it's for Bum Jiggy Jiggy) apply it to his Fella and try and keep it to the inner sides of your Lady Mounds?

Thanks for the tip. Loving your metaphors!

Having had a wonderful couple of nights away with my DW we talked about this very subject and decided we'd like to give it a go.

Trying to wrap my head around positioning...is it best for the man to straddle and thrust or for your DP to kneel (whilst the guy sits) and move up and down?

Are there any other good ways that anyone could recommend?

Just realised this may sound like I'm a bit of a perv...I am a leetle naughty but not that way!!!

You lay on top and thrust as she cups breasts together and you give her a pearl necklace or you stand and she sits on bed/chair/sofa and same as above except your standing.

@Rieslinger total perv darling, that’s why we love you!!!

@Rieslinger I think it really depends on who you want to be the active partner and you just experiment with positions from there.

Thank you all!! Having to go away for a couple of nights to see family so no chance till the weekend to try any of your top tips out!!

Do report back in due course 😉

@Catullus5 Might be soon might not be but I will!!

Me too - glad I'm not the only one....also usually put 'soapy' in front

So like the home life of our dear departed Queen

And unlike the home life of the average member of Mary Whitehouse's National Viewers' and Listeners' Association.

If only I had boobs, I might not still be single at 47!