Wise Men of the Sex Topic…

[Judeisnotobscure]

I’m looking for suggestions please for a delicious Valentines gift for my DP. Has anyone received anything lately that they would recommend. In the past I gave him a fancy prostate massager but it wasn’t a hit.

For me some sexy lingerie...e.g. crotchless knickers...and a lovely gentle evening making love would be perfect!

I guess I feel like I’m buying the lingerie for myself, it’s not really a gift for him. But maybe I’m overthinking this!!

Probably you are...For me sexy lingerie is absolutely lovely. The delight of being almost naked but not quite...like a present to be gently unwrapped. Lingerie, candle light, a willing sexy lover...perfect

Ok when you put it like that…sounds like the perfect gift!!

I couldn't ask for anything better from DW! It would be just fantastic. A perfect Valentine's evening. Here's hoping..... 🤞

I’ll keep everything crossed for you!!!!

😀👍

Fleshlight? Slightly less intrusive than a prostate massager!

My DW and I are going away for a couple of nights soon and she said I could choose all her lingerie for while we are there.

Definitely in my top three gifts given to me EVER!

We're going to go through what she already has first before I go off buying some choice pieces.

@whoknew123 in retrospect, I may have been a bit ‘go big or go home’! My poor DP!!

@Rieslinger that’s a fab gift!! I hope you both have a wonderful time away!

I agree with the comments regarding lingerie. You may be wearing it but it remains a present for him.

I've tried a few men's sex toys. They're all pretty meh in my experience. They have no advantages over a hand or another person unlike, say, vibrators have for women.

@Catullus5 thank you, I’m just gonna wear it and strut in my new lingerie guilt free!!

How about some sexy underwear...for him to wear. Lovehoney do a really nice range for men, called LHM which has a lot of styles, so you're sure to find something to appeal to both of you. The microfibre ones are great, or there's even lace if you're feeling adventurous.

@Anotherlurkingmale unfortunately lace would not be his thing. But the microfibre ones are lovely! Thank you xx

You're welcome. Definitely think the growth in sexy underwear for men is a positive thing. Makes a change from the usual boring underwear we normally wear, gives the female partner something to look at for a change and the man to feel sexually desirable - win win all round.

Maybe next year for the lace 😉

@Anotherlurkingmale you’re right, it’s cool that guys have a better choice now. Choosing and putting on beautiful underwear has always been part of my ritual prior to a date or sexy night in, it makes me feel wonderful!

I'm male - I have very nice underwear but I wouldn't know what sexy underwear for men would look like.

@Catullus5 Try Tenga Eggs, they are bloody amazing and they are not disposable if you are careful I can make mine last months!