Butt plug during the day

[Iloveabaconbutty]

Thinking about DW wearing a butt plug during the day, out and about, doing the shopping, etc.(although probably not at work!) In our mid fifties and at this stage in our lives it definitely feels a bit naughty/kinky etc. to be considering.

Just wanting to push the boat out a bit and see what happens. What are the practicalities? No previous experience of butt plugs at all. Does anyone have experience of this? Is it erotic or just uncomfortable/impractical?

I dont think it would in any way give her pleasure. If you are wanting her to enjoy some pleasure then a love egg style toy might be better. Even better would be one you can control with an app on your phone and you can send her random vibrations during the day. Depends what plans she has for the day and who with as to how naughty you want to be!

A butt plug for the day isn't impractical and it would stretch it nicely for later if that is what you have planned.

@IloveabaconbuttyHow exciting!!! you say you don’t have any prior experience…I would discuss butt play with your DW to gauge her interest. For some people it’s a total no no.

If she is up for it then get a butt plug training set, and over the course of about a month gradually increase the size and length of time she wears them. Start slow and use lots of lube. Oh and have a little flannel to wipe away excess lube for her to make the experience as comfortable as possible.

When your DW is ready to venture outside with one go for a walk together, see how that feels for her. You can build your play from there. Have fun!!

You’re thinking about your wife wearing one. Ask her before you start getting ideas….She may not be prepared to wear one at all.

Thanks for all advice so far. Sorry I wasn't clear. This is something we've discussed together on and off for a few months. Maybe it's just the idea that's a bit naughty/kinky. But we thought we might look into maybe actually trying it for real.

We've had "regular" anal sex fairly frequently
for years so it's familiar territory and we're both comfortable, get pleasure etc. But it's only ever been me inside (as it were) not toys/butt plug. We'll think on...

In that case…absolutely! Wandering around outside with an internal reminder of the play you share together-so hot!!

Are you going to wear one too?

I was thinking this, his n her matching sets ?

@Myotherusernamewastakenagain Haha, yes, maybe. Although probably not tbh. We have tried internal stuff on me yonks ago and I felt the rubbing of her fingertip on my prostate more in an uncomfy distracting kind of a way which just didn't do anything for me. Her fingertip or tongue on the outside is a different matter! Still if she's willing to give it a go... never say never...😂

The main thing is wondering if the reality will feel as naughty/kinky as the talking about it, or if it will just be an uncomfortable distraction.

Definitely use a latex one as they bend. Metal ones aren't comfortable.
It definitely makes the food shop more interesting as lots of bending to lower shelves is quite pleasant!

Love eggs don't really work for a full day as they ride too high and then the feeling is lost.

I recently spent a day out in the countryside with a Dom friend who asked me to wear a remote control butt plug. Huge fun for the first few hours especially when he turned it on whilst I was mid-conversation with some dog walkers and laughed at me trying to keep a straight face.

But after a while it became uncomfortable and taking it out whilst squatting behind a bush wasn't very practical.

@B1rd @PinotPony She's thinking maybe it's not a good idea to have one in when driving? She cycles a fair bit too.