Orgasm - do you let each other know?

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Maybe a lighthearted question here. Do you/your partner let each another know when you are about to cum? We normally do, it's helpful and adds to mutual pleasure and the general fun of sex, but I'm not assuming everyone is the same?

Sometimes yes sometimes no, I like how it revs things up for me

OMG Yeeees

Yes, my partner and I both let each other know so that we are hopefully able to finish together but doesn't always happen that way aha!

Yes!

Not really. But I think that’s because we’ve been together for over a decade and can tell without saying anything.

I do. My DH doesn't and I really wish he would

I like to give a commentary lol yes

There is no way I could cum with out my husband knowing. My husband and I have a bit of a routine now where he will ask “what do you want” just as he is about to cum, and I will reply “your cum” then he will say where do you want it” and I’ll reply which ever place I want him to cum and then he cums.

Thank goodness yes. Dp is the first partner I've ever had who will talk during sex and it absolutely drives me wild.

I can’t really form words during sex especially when I’m about to finish. I’m not really sure how others can frankly. 🤨

Everytime, adds to the excitement for me

Sometimes but DP says he can tell (particularly if he's doing oral) when I'm going to cum

I can tell from the look on her face and the noises she makes when she's close. I'm a bit more vocal and will tell her I'm going to cum.

I can tell when my DP is about to cum. She doesn't announce it as such, more of a 'oh my god'. What I love most is the pausing of breathing and tensing of muscles before the 'oh my god' arrives. Then the release of everything: muscles, emotions and vocal cords that can range from screaming, laughing or sometimes, crying. Gorgeous. Or, as my DP has just said 'healthy'.

About 50-50 but we can both usually tell. He rarely tells me actually thinking about it, it’s more me, but that’s probably because 99% of the time he makes sure I come first.

🤣 I’m a bit of a giggler 😳

I'm not usually able to speak coherently by that stage. DH can and occasionally does... but mostly we can just tell without saying.

When I've been fortunate enough to enjoy some carnal activity, you absolutely do. Nothing hotter than a partner telling you she's getting close/going to come, and you reciprocating with encouragement along the lines of, please come for me, your so hot and tight, etc. Love returning the Favour too, and letting her know I'm about to finish explosively. Adds to the mutual thrill and feeling afterwards. Being vocal during sex for both is really important I think, not always possible, but being passive is no fun.

Oh god, yes! But then we play with a lot of orgasm control...

I just bellow “brace yourself bessie” and hope I don’t end up with a hoof on my foot

Eh? Welsh farmer?

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Well thanks for that, Welsh people into bestiality? Irish people stupid? Scottish people mean?

I have no issue with the joke but did you really have to jump to that tired old trope?

I have no issue with the joke Well obviously you do....!

By the way NAWFALT