Bi women- where do you meet women?

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I’m 37, bi and wondering where to meet women? Either for fun in my own or with my husband.

it was easy in my 20’s, but it seems harder these days. Has anyone used any apps, sites, events that have worked well,

Genuinely, no freaking idea! Apps tend to be useless if you're in a relationship to be honest (that said I haven't had much luck single either!)

Skirt Club is good.

There was a long running thread a while ago on MN asking a similar question and a separate group was set up for ‘like minded ladies’ to meet each other. It’s a really lovely supportive group.

I think the fact is that in any one area there are not that many ‘bi but in relationships’ women about. Single bi women are rarely going to be looking to hook-up with a woman in a couple so you’re looking for someone in the same boat as you. And we all tend to just ‘look straight’ as we’ve got another half and pure monogamy is assumed.

Then when you find the tiny pool you’ve got to find someone you are attracted to and have chemistry with.

I think the answer is also different depending what you are looking for. Are you looking for a girlfriend alongside your relationship, a fling, something in between?

I suspect a woman to see you and a woman to see with your husband are also two entirely separate women!

I have thought about swingers clubs. People rave about Killing Kittens and Skirt Club. There are many couple profiles on feeld and fabswingers.

But bumping into someone in real life…no clue I’m afraid!

If you find the answer please come back and share!!

I suspect a woman to see you and a woman to see with your husband are also two entirely separate women!

I agree 100% with this! Liking women 1:1 and liking 3somes are two different things. The chances of finding someone that wants both things (and where you all fancy each other and click and can arrange the logistics to meet) is really very small!

Do you have a link at all? I'm looking at possibilities, not in a relationship yet but I am looking to have some fun with someone I've met and maybe separately too as I don't have much experience with women (I'm a lot more confident with guys!)... 👀

@Notconfident & OP if you're primarily looking for a physical encounter (rather than adding a fwb/ girlfriend to your life) have you had a look at Killing Kittens? They allow couples and single women to their events (no single guys) and I have heard very good things about their parties.

For f/f play without any men KK occasionally have women only events. Skirt Club events are all women only and some swingers clubs have occasional all women events.

The thread has gone now, but the group still exists (separately, off MN). I can ask one of the admins to send you a PM if you want? They generally chat to people first just to explain about the group and suss people out for a bit.

I'm the worlds biggest flirt so just meet people as I go about my daily life 🤷‍♀️.

Teach me your ways @eatdrinkandbemerry ! I cannot do this!

I'm old it's just experience 🤷‍♀️🤣