Startling find

[Hopefloats25]

DP has these in his washbag, condoms, spanking paddle and nipple clamps. I have not seen these - they are not for me… I can’t believe he’s spanking himself.

Not sure what I’m asking really as it’s clear I know, I just felt the need to share it thank you. Pretty devastating.

looks like he has become a closet Dom . that's a big wash bag to contain a paddle

So sorry OP but it seems fairly obvious what's going on. I think you need to do a bit of digging, check his emails and messages if you can. Then confront him. 💐

Crikey. What a shocking find in plain sight. Sorry OP 😔

Look through his phone for hidden messaging apps.

Thank you. I’d never get to his phone its closely guarded which says it all really.

Wait till he's asleep.

@Hopefloats25 -are you ok? Did you confront DH?

@feckoffbrian Yes I did confront him about this. He swore it was for masturbation purposes only and he had not been with anybody.

We have other issues and have been talking about separating. Thank you for asking

Unfortunately, it's highly unlikely he's using condoms to masturbate, he's also highly unlikely to be paddling himself.

@Scottishguy yes sadly that seems the case. I dont see fun in spanking oneself and would see him as a dom anyway so that says it all. He’s clearly never going be honest about it.

The use of condoms for a "posh wank", is I suspect a myth. Why would you need one when a bit of Kleenex would suffice!