Sex with new man after having a baby!

[nervyb]

Hi
I had a baby almost 8 months ago and am not with her dad. I am dating a man and he said about going back to his next week, however I haven't had sex (or anything for that matter!) since before my daughter was born! I'm so nervous that I won't feel good for him or I'll be like a Pringle tube!
Can someone please reassure me that it's completely normal?
I am so nervous

It really isn't that different. You just need to relax. Have you had any orgasums since giving birth? I would recommend having some "me" time before hand just to explore and check everything works as expected!

No advice OP but following because I’m in the same situation! Similar length of time. Neglected my kegels recently too 😯I think we just have to trust ourselves, be confident about our bodies and focus on having a good time!

@JulieS1
Thank you! Had an explore and can confirm everything is working

@Tiapia
I agree! Let's get back on the kegels

Glad to hear everything is working! Haha fingers crossed for us! 🤞