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The effect of my clothing on him

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Wandawhochanged · 09/09/2022 13:17

My man has always liked womans clothing. Not for himself though. 100% hetero.
He likes and envies that we can wear lighter softer fabrics.
His idea of a perfect special occasion date night at home is that I wear something long, layers and full, with soft underwear, no under wiring etc.
When we go to bed he will be naked, but he wants me to keep my dress on.
He just enjoys the feel of the softness on him.

Is this truly a fetish or just a preference. Any-one else know what I am talking about?

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Brillant · 09/09/2022 13:29

I don't think I know the difference between fetish and preference. But if he likes that and is able to communicate that to you - amazing - and I would just do it.
Also, transvestism doesn't equal homosexual.

mags1862 · 09/09/2022 13:45

my husband likes the feel of tights on me , I hate them and rarley wear them , occasionaly will wear hold ups .

Wandawhochanged · 09/09/2022 14:54

For clarity DH is not interested in wearing anything of mine or even womans wear in his size.

He has seersucker shirts and would wear shirring if it was a style that had been around a couple of years or so.

He just likes snuggling up to me and softer lacey things.

I had never seen this in a MN Thread.

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DesertOrchi · 09/09/2022 15:09

I like a woman wearing holdups,especially when playing...

MissConductUS · 09/09/2022 15:12

The may be a fetish aspect to it. Google CFNM.

It seems quite harmless to me.

Namechangeforthis9 · 09/09/2022 16:27

Men are very visual creatures. My husband loved seeing me dressed up specifically for bed, probably more so on a date night no kids or more likely a weekend away. He loves holdups or stockings and suspenders, accompanied by a either open fronted thong or basque. He loves touching through the material (so I avoid cheap crap) but really loves seeing my vulva completely bare

PinotPony · 09/09/2022 17:22

I don't think this is unusual. I know of a few guys who like the feel of clothing on women, whether it's sheer hosiery or soft floaty dresses.

If it doesn't bother you, then I see no harm in meeting his need.

porkmarkets · 10/09/2022 00:24

I sometimes wonder if this preference from women being covered up comes from the abundance of images we can access of women naked nowadays. There's a thrill in not seeing what's underneath, and being teased.

Shunter350 · 10/09/2022 11:50

Middle aged chap here ( for reference ).. I'm currently seeing a lovely woman who has a lovely sense of style. It had never occurred to me before how much it can turn me on! I can only presume it's because she looks "feminine".. sorry if I offend and will probably get flamed but can't otherwise describe it.

Standswitchshelf · 13/09/2022 13:22

When I was young, I was playing at a friends house for the afternoon. It was the Summer in the late 1970's. My Mum worked all afternoon so I would often be around at a friends house until she finished.

My friend was playing outside. I was inside reading a comic on the sofa, when my friends Mum had a group of two or three others Mums knock at the door They had been out shopping for lingerie. I think it was M+S as I remember the green and gold carrier bags - (remember those??)

The curtains were soon drawn. Tea and coffee was made and two of the Mums began undressing there and then.

I watched them unbutton their blouses and then unzip and slip off their skirts.

They took turns to pop into the downstairs loo to change and then return. It was a lingerie fashion show. As they showed off what they had bought and were deciding what to take back. (Again remember when Marks was one of the only places that would do that??)

I sat there for a long time, pretending to be engrossed in the comic. But secretly watching and enjoying every moment. I think they thought I was much too young to pay any attention.

There were both black and white lacy Bra's, silky slips, stockings and suspender belts. Basques. Robes. And high heels too. They all looked really good.

I'd seen pictures before, mostly in catalogues but this was for real. It only happened once.

I sometimes saw these Mums again outside School, and couldn't help then always wondering what they were wearing underneath their clothes!

I think that this event was the significant factor for my love of a woman in sexy underwear to this day.

Jumpking · 13/09/2022 20:41

Ex used to really enjoy me leaving a dress on while we had sex. He liked the feel of it.

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