How many

[nottonightdarlingsorry]

How many times a week...?
My husband likes to make love every night...
I feel it's too much and now it's starting to feel like it's just routine..
Get in bed
Fondle a bit
Do the deed
Sleep

I'd like a day or two inbetween mostly to build up the tension again..

If he doesn't get it every night he is a horror the next day...

How can I put it to him gently that I'd like a day or two to feel like it again...

As much as I love him and love having sex with him this is wearing me down...

’Making love’ doesn’t fit really does it. He is wanking into you. Sorry, but it’s a way that couples can become.

Change something drastic. Incremental steps achieve nothing.

3-4 times, very spontaneous.

different places , positions which we love

Just be honest with him.
Tell him that your sex drives are different. But that that doesn't mean that you don't not want to have sex, you just would like a little less, rather than every day. If he loves you, then it won't be an issue. He wouldn't want to force you into anything you don't want to do.

And maybe say if he needs the release still, then you don't mind him masturbating by himself once or twice a week inbetween.

Don’t plan it we don’t but I love it when we have a active sex life some nights I wear him out because I want sex 3 or 4 times a night what can I say he does it for me

Just explain to him what you just said and see if there's a solution that suits you both.

He might be happy to wank a couple of times a week if it means you're even more up for it next time.

I don't mean this unkindly but this post sounds like it's out of a Victorian-era magazine. Come back to 2022 and tell him to fuck off.

I need it twice a day. Fortunately my partner is similar.