Seeing escorts

[PaulChats]

I really wonder what people think of this. When I was single, I couldn’t get enough sex and I used to visit escorts. I reckon I must have seen 30-40 over the years. I stopped when I met my DW and haven’t since. They say many men do but never let on. I’ve had some wonderful sex and experiences with escorts and only a few bad ones.

And you are showing off about this, why?

I'm sure more men than we think pay for sex.

You've stopped paying women for sex? Well done! tell us where we should send the medal to.

You weren’t married. You saw escorts. Had good sex with some. Now you are married.
What is the question?
Are you bored sexually and talking yourself into doing it again - as many men do?

I’m bored sexually so maybe l am, yes.

Have you tried to talk to your W about is she is enjoying sex with you? Maybe she is also bored?
Maybe you two can try to make things more exciting? Or even try to push boundaries?
You may be surprised.

If she is Ok with how things are - your options are to leave or play around. But you are a grown-up - you know that.