Excessive "wetness" ruining my confidence

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After a long term relationship which was (amongst other problems) sexually unfulfilling, I have started to explore my sexuality casually with a couple of men. The experiences have been very positive and I have discovered how much better sex can be than what I had experienced up to now.
However, I have unfortunately also discovered that, with proper sexual stimulation, my vagina gets very, very wet, to the point that I stop feeling friction and I assume the men do too.

It's starting to make me feel self-conscious (especially when the man is younger) and I wonder if they thought I am too loose down there.
Since I didn't experience proper sexual stimulation when I was younger, I don't know if what I am experiencing is solely due to the excessive wetness, or because I am older and have had 3 vaginal childbirths.

Do you have any advice on how to address both this excessive wetness and my insecurities regarding being too loose?

Definitely wet is good
I think most guys would take it as a compliment (I would)
enjoy

The wetter the better lol

Oh god I've got this problem too. Never once had to use lube in my life. The only things that help me stop getting too wet are

1. making sure I don't orgasm
2. Keeping a tampon in during foreplay and removing it just before sex

I honestly think sex would be so much better for the man if there was more friction. It's so annoying, even when I try to think of unsexy thoughts and I try not to get turned on I still end up really wet 😡 actually really looking fowards to menopause when I dry up!