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First date sex

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NameyChangey666 · 13/07/2022 17:36

Literally nowhere else to say this!

Been single (separated) 2 yrs and pretty much sexless for about 4 or 5 (mostly down to me but ExDH very difficult)
Anyway, been OLD a few weeks. Met a few but no spark. Was chatting yesterday to a much younger guy (35, I’m 51) he suggested a pub, we met, had a brilliant 2hr chat, not at all flirty, just nice, funny, open, honest. I did fancy him physically. Then we snogged. And it was like a switch going off inside. I went to his. We had hot, sweaty urgent (safe) sex…..and oral, Which ExDH would not do

OMG amazing incredible and exciting. I felt 19 again. And my mum-tum and flabby thighs went unnoticed. And we laughed. And he wants to cook me dinner. I do not behave like this!! Except I did, and I have zero regrets 😀

Thank you for listening. And if it feels right, GO FOR IT 🤣

OP posts:
antwacky · 13/07/2022 17:43

Good for you! Glad you had a great time.

totallyoutnumbered · 13/07/2022 17:57

Well that's exciting!

MrsHarrison87 · 13/07/2022 18:35

Nothing wrong with first date sex if you're both feeling it. The last time I had first date sex, I went on to marry him and we're still going strong.

givemeastiffone · 13/07/2022 18:48

Jealous!

HowlongWillThisTakeNow · 13/07/2022 18:58

Sounds great

EndersGame · 13/07/2022 19:30

Fantastic - good for you

Scampi89 · 13/07/2022 20:02

Sounds fabulous!
@NameyChangey666 do you mind me asking which OLD site you used?

SuziQ10 · 13/07/2022 20:26

Go get it Grin

bedtimeisthebest · 14/07/2022 06:55

Great. Long time since I had first date sex, been married about 20 years, but last time I did the relationship lasted nearly three years

StarlightLady · 14/07/2022 10:03

I’m pleased you enjoyed yourself OP.

For too long, women have been judged as to when they choose to have sex. Often by other women. I was once told on a MN thread that they had names for girls like me when they were at school. My “crime” was that l admitted to always carrying condoms in my bandbag.

My own sister has been married for years and she first had sex with her now husband at a mutual friends wedding which was in an hotel. It was within a couple of hours of meeting and you couldn’t even call it a date.

Passion is always the key.

FemSxBoard · 14/07/2022 13:27

StarlightLady · 14/07/2022 10:03

I’m pleased you enjoyed yourself OP.

For too long, women have been judged as to when they choose to have sex. Often by other women. I was once told on a MN thread that they had names for girls like me when they were at school. My “crime” was that l admitted to always carrying condoms in my bandbag.

My own sister has been married for years and she first had sex with her now husband at a mutual friends wedding which was in an hotel. It was within a couple of hours of meeting and you couldn’t even call it a date.

Passion is always the key.

True, no woman should ever be shamed for liking and enjoying sex but it still happens. Maybe they were jealous?

Namechange85 · 14/07/2022 16:55

Good for you!!

I have recently separated from my H after 21 years together, he's the only man I've ever been with.

I met a lovely guy a month ago, we spoke every day via text then had sex on our first date!! All a bit drunken and not in the best situation due to various reasons but it was so exciting. However I couldn't help feeling ashamed the next day and was actually worried what he would truly think of me!!

Scampi89 · 14/07/2022 18:14

And how were things after that?

Annwen · 15/07/2022 08:31

In my single days, I wouldn't worry at all about having sex on the first date - often I did, sometimes I didn't. And @StarlightLady I always had condoms with me on a date as well. I was more concerned about being safe than my 'reputation'! 😃

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