All the time!!

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So I find myself thinking about sex all the time. I just can't get enough. I'm 52, on HRT and have recently lost 4 stone so I have a self confidence that hasn't been there for a very long time.
My imagination is going overtime imagining all sorts.
The issue? I have a very good DH. He's only a year older but there is a definite mismatch in our sex drives.
We only have it when I ask. And often he says no.
Anyone else have this issue?

I would pretty much disagree with all this, ^^, you be the person becoming a sex pest, pestering your DH into sex he doesn’t want, the more you pester the more he will reject you, go slower

thing is your sex drive is partly or maybe completely artificially induced so its not entirely surprising its higher than his.

in my 40’s I’d have had sex everyday. Now at 54 theres no way i’d want sex 4-5 days a week or think i was lucky if it was on offer!
twice is fine!

Hi There,

Happy to chat with you any time on any subject
Dan

Well I agree with "notlongtoo" especially the line "the more he has it the more he will want to"

I really think that this is key. Great sex involved both people and good communication. So many problems I read about online comes from people who want more, people who don't have any and people who wish their partner would understand them more.
It takes a lot to be really honest and open about sexual desires.
It's easy to fall out of step and get lost in today's world. I was trapped in a 'deadbedroom' marriage and went eight years without having sex at all.

I also think the advice of 'encourage him' is really valuable as well. We all want to be desired sexually. But a lot of fears and insecurities can get in the way.
I've never met anyone who found it easy to break the ice with talking about their true sexual desires. Anyone. But I know many who have really taken things to a new level once they were able to get past feeling vulnerable and took the risk of being rejected.

Once feelings of sexual desire have gone, I think it's really really difficult to get them back. You have to really work to keep that spark alive. Life is really short and we should all try and achieve sexual fulfilment somehow.

Let yourself go, and follow up on some of your thoughts.
I feel like this, I look through clothes websites and each time I think how practical is this for sex! Even a pleated skirt!
The ideas of different rooms and outdoors are good.
Other years there has been a Thread about the al fresco fuck. It is about the same time as the first cuckoo.

I am not on HRT but my sex drive is so high at the moment, maybe I’m peri-menopausal.

How does the feeling start - is three a trigger ie something you see or think about or are you in a constant state of arousal?
I am very attuned to a woman's pheromones and can tell when they are about to start their periods for example

For me it’s a constant aroused feeling in my vagina, like a buzzing feeling.

Wow that must be very intense - does it stop after sex/orgasm?

No it doesn’t always stop, I can have sex and an orgasm the day or night before and still experience a huge sense of arousal the following day.

How often do you have sex and or orgasm?

Dan I can't message you...will you find me?

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Dan

We have sex approx 2-3 times a week and i orgasm every time.

That's very heartily and at other times what do you do

Other times, my toys come out to play.

How often do then come out?

At the moment I just want it all the time. He's a bit knackered lol and can't keep up.

Oh dear sounds like he needs a sub to take care of you

I'm the same. Constantly horny. I see someone I like the look of or I get a sexy thought, I have to masturbate over it. Having sex every day where I will orgasm a few times isn't enough. The last week or so I've had a few things to deal with and I don't know if it's a way to de stress but I'm orgasming at least 6 times a day. I feel insatiable at the moment. I'm 34, always had a high libido but this is crazy. I've also started squirting which I never did before.

That sounds amazing. Do you squirt from masturbation?

I'm not sure if I squirt through masturbation there's always a wet patch. The proper squirting seems to come from g spot stimulation.