Lesbian slept with a man... TIPS

[k2331]

Hi all,

I've always considered myself a lesbian - first girlfriend was in school and has been women ever since (I'm 33 now). Apart from the odd teenage drunken fumble with a guy on a night out.

Anyway... Ive been chatting to a guy and things got flirty/dirty texts. Sexual only, no feelings involved and neither want anything more than that. We had sex the other day and it was amazing!! He kind of took the lead as I'm not experienced with guys which was great but next time I want to do the same.

So I'm looking for all your tips! Mainly blow jobs and me being on top, any advice/tips you can give me 😜😈

Thank you! X

As with all good sex, communication is the key.
Questions like 'Is that good?' and 'What does it for you?' will always get you a long way.
Not clear from your post if he knows your lack of experience with men and it shouldn't really matter much but if he does know then it is even easier to ask him.
Attention to your partner will always make you a great lover.

@SlightlyDifferent thanks! Yeah he knows, was honest about that from the start. He actually quite liked it lol x

If you want to make him orgasm from a blow job you have to get right down to the base. Plenty of varying pressure and licks round the head but keep the firmness round the base with your hand if your mouth is elsewhere.

Feel free to PM me if you need any more help.

thats not the case for me, I think DT is overrated, asking him how he likes it is your best bit when it comes to oral.

I agree about DT and I'm sure it will vary from person to person. I like all the action on the head.
Advice remains the same, ask him waht he likes - or have fun testing it out until you find out for yourself.
There's no wrong answer, just differet things work for different people.

My DH likes the focus to be on the head and taking as much of his penis into my mouth does nothing for him. All men are different though.

I would agree with @SparklingStars10 . Focus on the head and frenulum. Does it for me! Worth agreeing with your man where he should ejaculate beforehand. If you don't like the taste of semen make sure he cums elsewhere.
As to On top. Straddle him and lower yourself on to him. Ahem....great view!. Then either lean back...great view for him😁or lean forward so he can massage your boobs. My OH loves to lean forward with me inside and kind of wriggles and grinds against my pubic bone...she often cums doing this.

I would agree with @SparklingStars10 . Focus on the head and frenulum. Does it for me! Worth agreeing with your man where he should ejaculate beforehand. If you don't like the taste of semen make sure he cums elsewhere.
As to On top. Straddle him and lower yourself on to him. Ahem....great view!. Then either lean back...great view for him😁or lean forward so he can massage your boobs. My OH loves to lean forward with me inside and kind of wriggles and grinds against my pubic bone...she often cums doing this.

@Sparkybloke thanks so much! Excellent advice. Porn has made me believe every guy wants a girl to deep throat and I just don't think I can do that!

Porn is not real life....if you don't want to put his penis in your mouth at all then dont! Sex is all about communication and being clear on what you both like and don't like....never ever do what you feel uncomfortable with...ever...have fun and enjoy...that's what makes for great sex and love making....