Never had an orgasm with a man

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I am 32 and have slept with quite a few men but have never orgasmed . I can do so by myself , but not with another person . My ex was shocked by this as he was not used to it .
I feel so jealous of other women who can orgasm with a partner , I just don’t know if there is anything I can do . Any tips welcome .

Have you done it really slowly? That was how I first orgasmed with a man after years of not

Have you tried numerous positions? I can only get there when I'm on top which OH has no issues with

Do you mean you've never had an orgasm through PiV, or never had one at all while with a man?

The first isn't unusual, the second would suggest your partners have failed you.

Are you saying their presence makes you unable to help him get you there? Or are you expecting him to take the lead entirely without any input from you?

why can’t you get very close and then climax with a combo of penetration and clitoral stimulation by either of you?

works for us btw.