Panty Thief

[lolachic]

I've noticed some of my lingerie moved / missing from the laundry basket sometimes lately.
Obviously he is crossing a line and part of me is mad but is it normal to be partly aroused also?
Is it wrong to be a little aroused by someone borrowing my things to play with?

Confront him with it directly,
He will be so scared He'll probably shit in your pants.

why don't you explore your shared arousal together, sounds fun. enjoy 🙂

Well the suspect is not my DP I'm actually a single mum btw.
I'm not very confrontational either!

So how many people have access to your laundry basket?
Sounds like a genuine post completely.
(Sorry to be in any way confrontational)

if it's your son, then tell him to make sure he washes them on a delicate wash after he's finished with them.

My sons friends are regular visitors (aged 19-21).
I haven't narrowed it down 100% yet but I have my theories.
Not genuine? Please, a quick google shows it's quite common and prevalent

There's a sub on Reddit called cummed panties. Might be an eye opener for you

Oh just an exploration phase boys can go through.i wouldn't to say anything , hide your best stuff.assume matching set not wandering .it will pass soon enough.i doubt very much they are soiling them

Is your son aware your pants are going missing?
Also, are you absolutely sure?

I wouldn't imagine you would want them back when whoever has taken has finished with them !

Certainly not unwashed

@Blaze1886 Yes it seems to be a fetish thing
@notlongtoo apparently that's a thing too, some guys trading panties among themselves so who knows
@Kitten2 well about 98% sure

Ok I've been keeping closer tabs and some pairs seem to find their way from bottom to the top of the basket consistently, so I know I'm not imagining it now.
Also one seemed more in need of a thorough wash than I remember, put it that way. So he's not great at hiding it.
I did find a pair in my sons room but they weren't mine. Not sure where they came from tbh. Some secret girl? Or friends mum,? Could they be swapping? Or maybe he even bought them online! Apparently that's a thing now too.
Maybe I should start selling them myself lol!

I’ve never called my pants panties or heard other women using that word.

Yes. I've wondered about that. It's a US name, adopted by the porn industry.
It's always been knickers to my partners!
Just sayin'..

I'm pretty sure if you thought it was your son or one of his friends then your maternal instinct would be one of protection, not arousal.

Get a indoor Google cam, point it at washing line or underware drawer.

Been here! Turned out to be one of my sons friends! Not who I thought either.

This has to be handled delicately, equally you need to find who so your sure. Small discreet camera viewing the basket could be an answer then confront him privately and afford him the opportunity to own up. I only noticed initially because the knickers from a set were missing.
I then told him he had a choice, either I make his misdemeanours public ( I wouldn’t have) or he bought me a new set.

it put a stop to it x

Create a fake skid using Nutella or own brand chocolate spread. That should either curb their interest or lead them to a scatology fetish.

Just make sure none of the friends have nut allergies.

What? Aroused? What?

This is a massive invasion of privacy, theft and weird and disgusting as well as disturbing behaviour. God. Honestly this is vile.

And in answer to a recent PM

Yes I made him go and buy them!