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[mamax123]

hey mums this is so embarrassing to write but my partner really wants to put it in the back way but i just can't help and think will it get messy if you all know what i mean does anyone else fear this or experienced this 🤣🤣🤣🤣

It would be a no from me
It's an exit not an entrance in my view

thank you 🤣

Firstly do you want to do this? Anal isn't for everyone and no-one should feel pressured. In any case it you are feeling in any way anxious that will make things tense up which will definitely make things more difficult and most likely painful. Don't be afraid to say no. If you are up for it - and many people do enjoy it - you've got to take things really slowly. Lube is essential. It helps if you are already turned on and maybe have had an orgasm already. But slow, slow, slow. And if it doesn't "work" the first time and you do want to try again there'll always be another opportunity. To answer your question directly, if you have regular bowel movements and have been to the loo in the previous few hours you should be fine regarding messiness. IMO anal douches, etc are not necessary. The rectum is an empty space most of the time. It's about 4-5 inches long so will be able to accommodate him fairly easily if he is of average length. That's not to say that occasionally things can get a bit mucky but that's very infrequent in my experience. He can always use a condom if you are worried about it. But he does need to wash himself thoroughly if you are going on to regular/oral sex afterwards, otherwise there's an infection risk. Apologies for the very long reply! Hope it goes well if you want to go for it.

You could clean up before hand but a bit of dirt is to be expected doing anal.

DO NOT do anything you don't feel comfortable doing, but as an old friend once said to me, try everything twice just to be certain. Oh, and lube, lots and lots of lube.