Name changed and have been here for a while. Just need to get this out as I am 31 and have just had the best sex of my life on date number 3. I am slightly overweight and was really nervous about being naked in front of new guy. He made me feel SO sexy, to the extent that I felt 100% empowered and confident. I have been in therapy after repeated sexual assaults by my ex. I haven't told new guy about any of this, and have had real issues around sex. It just goes to show how important sexual compatibility and respect are re intimacy. He asked every time he did something if it was OK, aka going down on me, touching certain areas, asked if I was OK intermittently. What was interesting was that he made me orgasm really easily, and he's the first man to be able to do that. Not expecting any responses, just feel like 'yay for me' and have no friends close enough to tell this information to 😅 Always felt a bit used after sex and for the first time in my life I felt in control.....