Swallowing semen

[Warminster]

I've been in a relationship with a fantastic man for a few months and we really hit it off sexually. But whenever it's been me giving oral to him it's never got as far as him coming in my mouth as I'm worried about the taste, how much there'll be, if I might gag, etc. We've got very close to it a few times but then we'd finish off (my request) with straight sex. I know he'd love it and the actual idea of it including swallowing I do find exciting. It's not really been an issue for me before. I'm not that experienced and in the couple of relationships that I've had one was so obsessed by it it totally put me off and in the other he wasn't really interested in doing that. Am I getting worried about nothing?

Man here. So volume wise..around 2 to 5 ml...a teaspoons worth. It does vary...if your man hasn't ejaculated for a while it will be towards the higher end...if you already did the deed a couple of hours before then towards the lower end.
My current OH is very happy if I cum in her mouth. Ex hated it. All very much personal preference so if it's not for you then that's fine. If he does then you can swallow. It's perfectly harmless. If you don't fancy it then have a tissue to hand.
Taste wise...salty, musky. It is affected by diet so spicy foods, red meat etc make it less pleasant as does smoking apparently. It's said that if he drinks fruit juice juice, especially pineapple or cranberry juice a couple of hours beforehand can improve the taste. If you want to try it then go for it. If you don't like it then tell him that. He should be equally happy to cum elsewhere.

Give him one of these a good few hours before having fun.

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Could you give him oral but use your hand at the end and have your tongue near his penis head. Then he can get the illusion on spunking in to your mouth but probably not much will actually land there.. and you can see how you feel after that as to whether you'd be happy for it to be all in your mouth in future.

For me, depends on the cum.
New partners is really thick and I don't like it v much. Previous guy I was more than happy to because the texture wasn't gloopy. And he ate really healthy so it tasted less.

If you take the head towards the back of the mouth just before release (you can feel his pulse change on your lips when it's going to happen), it flows straight down and the the taste is usually quite minimal. Remember the rest of the time it is not a competition to see how much of him you can take in your mouth though. It should always be comfortable.

Avoid if he has been eaten asparagus though. Regularly eating strawberries, peaches and watermelon helps the flavour and is good for his health too.

I can agree with @StarlightLady. Takes some confidence as it is easy to gag. I like the taste of my DH but is we have a lengthy foreplay session, I know that if he cums in my mouth, that there will be a lot. I use the same technique and as Starkight says, it can flow straight down your throat, which is good for DH as it isn't nice for him if I spit out

As far back on the tongue as possible as you can’t taste it as much as at the front. I barely taste it this way.

The first time I did it the taste really shocked me but it’s similar to tasting salty water, if you can imagine that. I soon learnt the back of the tongue trick - it makes it enjoyable for both of you and I love doing it now.

The biggest factor is only do it, if you feel comfortable doing it, not what your partner may or may not think.

...and real men kiss you afterwards!

I wish I could enjoy this but I really, really don’t.

A few months ago I decided to give it a go and as soon as DH ejaculated and I felt the taste and texture in my mouth I started gagging and heaving. I had to run to the bathroom where I ultimately threw up!

He’s never asked me to do it again….

Thanks for all suggestions and advice. We were away for a few days last week and I took the opportunity just to go for it and it was actually fine. We've done it a couple of times since and I think it's something I could get to enjoy a lot especially when he totally loses himself when he comes. Trying to take him a bit more deeply as suggested when he ejaculates. Taste a bit salty but okay although the first time definitely felt like more than a teaspoonful! I'll suggest if he visits the fruit bowl more often it might be mutually beneficial...

Glad it worked well for you. Is a lovely thing to do and I always love to see my DH both as I'm doing it but especially when he cums. I do really enjoy taking ages both on mutual foreplay but especially when I'm doing oral on him. I can always tell when he explodes and how much there is how aroused he was. Practice makes perfect as well

Are there many real men out there…?

@PaddlingLikeADuck , I can't stand the taste & texture either. But if you get some lubricant, & research some tips, you can get spectacular results with just your hands.

I love a cum kiss myself , must make me a real man !

Not for me, too salty & slimy

With my bf is a work in progress… after ED he has now cum with piv but I would really like via oral because of the intimacy (had with ex but can hardly give that as a reason with him …) My first time experience as a teenager was this which is probably why I associate it with intimacy.

Hope it’s is not too graphic? He did like that after the piv orgasm I wanted to kiss him there and said that soon would really like oral ‘full experience’

My wife and I have a couple with benefits and the other wife says she can tell the difference between my cum and her husband's.

We tested this once by both of us coming on my wife's boobs and her tasting them both. She got it right. Luck, guess or she knew, I donlt know. Maybe we should repeat the test.

Apart from my own, I've tasted two men's cum but at different times and don't recall any great difference.

Ohhh for sure, I love sharing. If my partner is comfortable then it's a real turn on. Excuse the way I put this but a good cummy kiss can be incredible. Both ways, me sharing after I've given oral and definitely her sharing with me after she's been down on me. I'm not sure about the real man label but it's something I love for sure.

All men taste completely different. Very, very individual. I bloody love it personally.

I really love it when DW swallows my cum. Always have. It's not just the physical pleasure, which is amazing, there's something emotional about the intimacy too, about closeness, acceptance, bonding, etc. After a lot of years of marriage I'm sooooooo glad she's still happy to do this quite often. Hope we're still doing it when we're in our 80s! (a long way off yet!)

Depending on the dude it’s usually very watery to me. I don’t think you’re worried for nothing though especially if a guy pressured you in the past. That’s totally understandable. I kind of just swallow it as fast as possible before I can really taste it. I always have set the president that I get to choose if it goes in or out and he doesn’t get to decide so it’s always a pleasant surprise when it happens. Sometimes it changes consistency. Maybe because of diet? Who knows. If it’s really thick, a lot or I’m just not feeling up for it I always have a towel next to me and I just spit it out. I never pressured myself to do anything I don’t want. But honestly I prefer it over the clean up so that’s enough to incentive for me to try to swallow because I don’t want to deal with soo much laundry later. 🤣 (he usually does the laundry but it’s just one less thing to worry about in my book)

Just to add we don't often discuss it but DW has sometimes said taste and quantity can vary a bit. I cottoned on to the "eat more fruit" thing a few years ago so I upped my intake straightaway! Drinking plenty of water also helps I think and she thinks there's a definite volume increase if I haven't ejaculated for a few days.

I find it quite astringent, not really salty.
It reminds me of bleach in a way, no idea why.
Especially hate in my eye.

As a previous contributor to this thread, who is is that keeps dragging up posts from way back (in this case May last year)? Do we have nothing new to discuss?