Weekend away tips

[JadeTC]

I'm going on a 2 night weekend away in July with my DH; just us, no children. We are both really looking forward to the time away to relax and re-connect after a busy few years having babies.

The place we are staying in has a private pool, private hot tub and luxurious bath in the room so plenty of opportunities for time together with little to no clothing on. We have a relatively active sex life but I would say we've become very vanilla and repetitive since having children. Am planning on taking new lingerie as a little surprise but anything else?

I'm not really sure what I'm asking for but would welcome any tips to make it extra special for us both!

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That sounds amazing, I'm jealous. What about massage oil, blindfold, handcuffs and a sex toy?

Hi, I'm also jealous. From experience most men seem to love if you take the lead so if thats not the norm maybe try that. That and just being confident and enjoying yourself. Have a fantastic time.

Thank you both. Massage oil, blindfold etc are great suggestions, DH will love that. And I know that he will definitely enjoy me taking the lead with confidence! I've lost it a bit since becoming a mum so am looking forward to getting it back and he will probably be surprised by that too!

Just something simple like a dressing gown cord/ties to tie him up with. You can progress to cuffs when you get home 😉

Lube...all sorts of fun to have with that in all sorts of ways.

Even something simple like a naked picnic on the carpet.

Oooh, and champagne. We take a bottle of champagne to every hotel we go to. Bliss!

If you've got a naked, tied-up man in front of you, you're going to need an ice-cube tray. Let the ice-cubes melt a little bit before you use them on him, and try them on different parts of his body before you use them on his genitals.

Good luck!

Does he like being tickled? That's what we do to each other when we've got got other tied up. It can be very erotic and sensual.

Start well before you get there, build anticipation. Go for a wax and tell him all about how smooth it is but he can't touch until you're at the hotel?

Tease on the journey, discreet flash of stocking, maybe hand him your thong discreetly if you stop for a coffee then tell him how wet you are getting?

When back to the car maybe get him hard but no further than a squeeze or two of his cock... don't put him off driving by playing with yourself whatever you do

Surprise him by having a butt plug already in? Remote vibrator that he can control when you go out in public?

So much fun to be had, enjoy yourself! (Jealous )

Great ideas, thank you. We are flying there with no hold luggage so some of these ideas might be tricky or would need some thinking about. Not sure I fancy walking through security with a vibrator inside me haha
I'm even more excited now! Thanks everyone

Don't use handcuffs etc without a lot of research & practice! You're best tying him very loosely with something, so he can escape whenever he wants

When he's tied up, you need to tease him mercilessly, until he's begging. If you're using your hand on him, then first spend a long time stroking his thighs, chest and stomach, then play with his balls for a long time before you bring him off with lube.

If you're using your mouth on him, you could tie his hands behind his back, tell him what you're going to do, then spend a long time kissing him, then kiss & lick his chest, belly, thighs, and balls first. Sorry if this is too much!

Hi OP

Trailing a soft scarf all over him is a good way of teasing, ostrich feathers are good for tickling. Hope all goes well

OP, July???? You are over-planning. Take your body and purr. A bottle of post sex Bollinger would go down better with me than handcuffs.

We played the game monogamy which was a hit.

Also the ten minute game. Lie next to and facing each other naked, hands behind back and legs pressed together, snog hard and deep, pressing bodies hard against one another but not using arms or legs until the ten min timer goes off. Then go wild and free. Can tie you legs and arms if comfortable with that but works without. Also, applying a bit of oil to your bodies beforehand can be hot.

I would book a long beauty session before you fly. Do the vitals but I would include a full wax if you don't already and have a massage at the end.

I'm sure seeing you in new lingerie and also bare below will be a sure hit. Some dirty talk is usually very welcome by men!

@JadeTC , Did you end up trying any of these? I can agree with all the teasing & the icecube stuff! Hope it went well x

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