DP ED

[OldLadyWithLongSocks]

Been with DP for 14 years. He was a Virgin. He's now early 40's am late 30's. Kids conceived via insemination at home.

PinV about ten times in total. Always using tablets. Always booked in advance. Last time was 5.5 years ago. He's rejected me many times and we haven't done anything sexy for years.

What do I do? I have had two series relationships in the past and the sex was so important and very often.

I’m a man, and my advice would be leave unless you want to to be celibate for the rest of your life.

As for the Always using tablets. Always booked in advance, comment, I (personally), don’t actually see an issue with that when taken in isolation if the pill works, great, but no sex for 5 years, sod that!

Strange to ask at this point, surely the writing was on the wall 14 years ago? If you like sex, but you need to inseminate to get pregnant, just why would you bother and tie yourself to that? It was obvious from the start there was an issue, so why did you stick around?