Why do I want this? Have you done it? (Sex question)

[castleclouds]

Does anyone else have this fantasy or am I abnormal?

Name changed for privacy!

Long term married 20+ years. My libido has almost disappeared. Apart from when I think of my husband with another women! It drives me wild.

I've heard that a fantasy should be left a fantasy but the urge to actually do it is crazy! Has anyone done this and is it as good as you'd imagined?

I'm also deeply embarrassed by this...I haven't told my husband but im sure he has an inkling...

It's actually getting on my nerves but I would love to hear anyone else's experiences of this?

Our relationship is pretty solid. Should I broach the subject?

Hi OP

We're just moving your thread over to the sex topic!

It's not an uncommon fantasy, though tends to be more the other way around with men fantasizing about their wives. The term for a woman who's husband fucks other women is cuckquean.

Maybe you could try hinting s bit more to your husband. Even if it's not something you end up going through with, simply sharing the fantasy could spark something between you. Maybe point out how sexy an actress is, or pick out a woman in a restaurant or bar when you're out.

I bet he'd jump at the chance of some dirty talk about you watching him with someone else.

So yes, absolutely, you should share this with him.

I would definitely go along with an actress or other sleb rather than a real woman. Watch a movie etc and then get him to describe what he is doing to her while he is doing it to you…

One way to introduce it would be to say that you had a vivid dream which involved him with another woman and you found it surprisingly arousing. See what his response is.

@TheWifesLad haha love this idea. Gonna try it!