Orgasms change

[Amibroken]

I'm in my 60s, single and post menopausal. My question is has anyone found their orgasms changing? I've been using the Satisfyer Pro and while it can make me get to the point of orgasm I don't get the pulsating feeling I'm used to. Instead it is like the start of an orgasm but very harsh and more of a feeling inside than on my clit. I almost have to remove it as its to strong and abruptly finishes before the pulsating feeling. Im on my own so can't check this change with a man but curious to as to weather this is down to the strength of the pro or physical changes. Has anyone else found this to? If you have how did it compare to cumming with a man from oral? Would you recommend a different toy?

I hesitated in replying here because l’m early 40s and do not have experience of the Satisfyer.

I own a couple of Durex Bullets and a powerful Omax, a workhorse of a vibey which is no longer available to buy.

The bullet has more or less daily use as part of my wake up routine and makes a nice start to the day after coffee in bed. The Omax needs more thought, is used less, makes a nice change, but has too much oomph to use on full power. Neither is anything similar to oral from another person but both have their place.

OP, you might benefit from a little more variety and the different sensations may do the trick; 2 bullets together can be fun too. You can pick one up for around £10, why not give it a whirl? It might just hit the spot in a different way.

@StarlightLady thank you for replying. I do have another vibrator (internal and clit)and that used to give me some sensation but gradually less so and now I feel numb from that externally. I'm not sure if it's my choice of vibrators or my clit that doesn't work properly anymore. I will look into the bullet you have mentioned. You start the day in style!

I've not tried the satisfyer. Want to but I've got a feeling it will be too intense for me as I can be over sensitive. I prefer the rabbits. They can be intense but you can get them in a range I'd styles and varying in intensity so may be worth trying if you've not already.