Same Room Sex

[Ark10]

My wife and I have been talking about this for a while, we do not want to share ourselves with anyone and we have a great sex life but the idea of being in the same room while they have sex and we do the same is a huge turn on!

Has anyone here done that? How was it and what is the best way to find a couple that would be open to that! Not swinging just doing it same room and same time! :)

@Ark10 - not as an uncommon thing as you think! There are many couples out there doing the same thing. - you are not alone! Some call this "soft swing"

Fabswingers is not just for swingers. There are all sorts of people on there, looking for all sorts of things. Set up a profile, decide your age range, enure your profile clearly states what you are looking for and block anything that doesn't interest you.

You can initially hide your profile, and have a look around. Search for couples in your area, looking for couples, and check out there profiles.

Do things like video calls / social meets, and then go with the flow. You will also find like-minded couples at swingers clubs / events.

Warning, once you dip a toe into the lifestyle, it can become addictive!

@AverageGuy thank you that is really helpful! Sounds like what we are after is still essentially swinging but called soft swinging!

Video calls could be a good way for stet perhaps, sounds like what you are saying is it’s better to try and meet likeminded people through apps and organised events rather than try and figure out who might be into this stuff off people you know!

Have you had experience with this type of lifestyle?

@Ark10 I don’t think it would be wise to include people you know, apps are better and maybe you can establish a friendship with them that separates them with your personal life. I’m sure you’ll find others that will be looking for the same experience.

@ark10 - thanks for the message. Will respond in PM.

Rather than soft swinging which is usually an exchange of partners but non penetrative sex Ive heard it referred to as social swinging.

It is quite common - the stories I could tell.....

Hmm me and my partner got this out our system years ago.... (now 28) we'd have sex at sleep overs with others in the room without them knowing. Sounds bloody terrible but so hot!!! I can see the appeal.