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How often do you 'self pleasure'?

22 replies

Grapejuiceisntwine · 17/02/2022 11:41

As a single woman and even when I was in a relationship I had a long period of no sex drive. Didn't want him near me.

However toward the end I was having some quality 'me time' several times a week. Recently I've found that it's a couple times a day ... I couldn't sleep last night and felt horny so I had a go and I've already had a moment this morning!

What is 'normal' 'cause I'm thinking at the moment I am feeling overly sexual.

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EllaVaNight · 17/02/2022 13:17

There is no normal. If I had to say what normal was I'd say never to as many times as people like. I think most grown ups know that so asking about women's masturbation habits looks a bit suss to me but I am a naturally suspicious person!

JellybabyGina87 · 17/02/2022 16:21

About 5 times a week. We have regular sex as well. I find the more orgasms I give myself, the more orgasmic I am during penetration. I don't think there's any right or wrong. Just do it as many times as you like, there's no shame in a high sex drive.

mags1862 · 17/02/2022 20:55

never for me , only cum with Dh .

StarlightLady · 18/02/2022 08:28

There is no normal and individuals should be comfortably sexual., the word overly should not come into the conversation.

Generally, l would say once or twice a day. That’s regardless as to what else is going on, the needs are totally different.

AverageGuy · 18/02/2022 11:19

Not often now - maybe once a month?

I'm having regular sex with a FWB or two Blush, so don't often feel the need to self pleasure.

afternoonolympics · 18/02/2022 17:24

At the moment it's everyday. A long session in the morning and then a quickie later in the day.

We love feet/nylon worship and I've got new tights so I christen them during the day ahead of together time after work when he gets to see and smell what I've been doing.

Jumpking · 18/02/2022 19:25

For me it varies on the time of the month, the weather and how bored I am!

Josephsrose · 18/02/2022 19:45

Every day at least. Got worse as I got older

Grapejuiceisntwine · 19/02/2022 12:53

@AverageGuy

How does anyone have time for more than one FWB?

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Grapejuiceisntwine · 19/02/2022 12:55

@afternoonolympics

Sounds like you've got yourself a good partner there! I'm jealous x

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AverageGuy · 19/02/2022 13:48

@Grapejuiceisntwine - it's all in the scheduling! Grin

afternoonolympics · 19/02/2022 15:05

[quote Grapejuiceisntwine]@afternoonolympics

Sounds like you've got yourself a good partner there! I'm jealous x [/quote]
I'm very lucky. We spend a lot on stockings and tights and I love to wear them for myself and my own needs as much as time with him. New nylons always mean more playing with myself.

DontWantTheRivalry · 20/02/2022 01:16

If I’m home alone I will do it at least twice a day.

I think masturbation is the best gift that God gave to humans Grin

hazeleyednerd · 20/02/2022 08:55

As often as I want to :) It varies.

lauraUK1000 · 25/03/2022 15:36

It's usually every for me and I've always liked to masturbate often. I told my hubby at some point and was was quite surprised I did it daily but he loved knowing this.

Estherpologist · 26/03/2022 07:36

It ranges from 2 or occasionally 3 times a day, 7 days a week to once or twice a week. If I'm less happy, it's less often, but being happy doesn't necessarily mean more playing.

ShrigleyForty · 26/03/2022 18:51

@Jumpking

For me it varies on the time of the month, the weather and how bored I am!
Snap!
Maskless · 26/03/2022 20:19

Reading this thread makes me feel I am inadequate!

MrsGHarrison87 · 31/03/2022 11:12

Every night. Even though we have a lot of sex I need that alone time to think about my fantasies and get it out my system.

Member736785 · 11/04/2022 18:49

Daily and with up to 3 climaxes when I can get time alone and find the time. I like to read something dirty and have some me time! It’s one of the best relaxants there is and having a DH with little/no sex drive means I am not harassing him for something he doesn’t want to give. When my family is out for the day I have been known to rush around getting jobs done and then settling back for a few hours Shock

sammylady37 · 11/04/2022 21:38

[quote Grapejuiceisntwine]@AverageGuy

How does anyone have time for more than one FWB?[/quote]
I have 3! And am developing a 4th.

Annabelle96 · 12/04/2022 06:25

Depends on my mood. Sometimes as much as everyday, other times maybe once a week

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