How to break the cycle?

[itsnotenoughisit]

Married 20 years. Always had the higher sex drive. DH says he doesn't have to make an effort because he can last longer than I can.

Which, I suppose is true. Maximum I can go without is 10/14 days, and then I crack snd make the first move.

How can I break this cycle? I just want regular (daily) sex, initiated by both parties.

You want daily sex initiated by both parties? If he doesn't want daily sex then this is just not achievable and you need to compromise?

Very unreasonable, not everybody has the want or energy to have sex every day for goodness sake. Given you've been married 20 years, I'm going to assume your husband isn't a horny teenager, therefore I'd imagine he has work etc too.