First FFM

[spicething]

I'm meeting a couple this weekend for a threesome and to say I'm nervous is an understatement! I met them for dinner and they were so nice, but I've never been with a woman before and I just don't know what to expect! They've set boundaries, no penetration with him, which I'm fine with, I just assume it's going to be a shit ton of oral, love that, and them fucking. Hope I don't feel like the third wheel.

It’s natural to be nervous and apprehensive. You’ve said what boundaries they have set…. do you have any boundaries?
What is it you are looking for from the session? The great news is that you have already met with them and appear to get along and be comfortable with their company. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want, and state what you don’t want.
Hopefully you will be able to relax and enjoy yourself

@spicething - I'm an occasional third for a couple. Initially, they said no penatration, which I agreed to, so the first meeting was just soft play - think loads of foreplay. I thouroughly enjoyed that, as I love foreplay. Things have moved on since then, and we are all happy with the situation - especially her!

But, if you aren't going to have PIV with him, and you haven't been with a woman before, then what are you wanting / hoping to get out of it? Are you bi? bi-curious?

It might be that a FFM threesome is a step too far at the moment?

In all honesty I'm recently out of a shitty relationship and I just want to try new things, it's always been a fantasy of mine and I'm just thinking why not! They are both really hot, the thing I'm most worried about is that as I've never been with a woman I gravitate towards men more and then I don't want it to come across that I'm not excited by her, if that makes sense. I've been texting him more than her, is that normal? Lots of foreplay is good enough for me!

@spicething I guess as long as they’re not getting everything on their terms, then it’s ok, as long as you’re happy. Have you made it clear you’ve never been with another woman?

@spicething - fair enough! I completely understand that! Been there, done that, got the t-shirt...

Why not is good, but, you may find that the reality simply doesn't live up to your expectations... He may be hot, but if you can't have piv with him, then it's "just" hands & tongue (which can be immensly fun! )

She may be hot, but you may find you can't stand her touching you, or something...

Just remember, you don't have to do anything you aren't comfortable with, and it's your body, so your rules!
report back!

[quote AverageGuy]@spicething - fair enough! I completely understand that! Been there, done that, got the t-shirt...

Why not is good, but, you may find that the reality simply doesn't live up to your expectations... He may be hot, but if you can't have piv with him, then it's "just" hands & tongue (which can be immensly fun! )

She may be hot, but you may find you can't stand her touching you, or something...

Just remember, you don't have to do anything you aren't comfortable with, and it's your body, so your rules!
report back![/quote]
That’s worth noting, expectations are very different from reality.
Foreplay is great but I couldn’t not have sex after.

I’m afraid l’m unable to follow why any woman would want to have their first time with another female, which can be ever so special, in the presence of a man.

In the same way that you can withdraw your consent at any stage to what is happening, you are also entitled to revise your predetermined limits as and when you may wish. You may decide to go further, or you may reconsider and not want to go where you initially thought you would.

I hope that it is a success for you (and them).

@StarlightLady

I’m afraid l’m unable to follow why any woman would want to have their first time with another female, which can be ever so special, in the presence of a man.

Because I want to suck his dick while she sits on his face!

Brilliant!! You go girl!!

@Perturbdisturb

Brilliant!! You go girl!!

Thanks

Because I want to suck his dick while she sits on his face!

Well that escalated quickly

I hope you get to sit on his face too

@Rosesareredd

I hope you get to sit on his face too

Me too, while she rides him 😜

Loving this thread!
I've no physical experience but in terms of not feeling like a third wheel....

Have you clarified what signals the end of the session and what you do when it's done? Do you stay over? Do you leave them to finish up/get cleaned up etc? I'm just trying to think it through and any awkward parts, just thought the end might be a bit wavy when everyone is tapering off and you are left there wondering if you get to do post sex cuddles or if it's just them?

Go on OP. I bet that humbled that poster

Spice
I have no worries for you
Go enjoy and relax and report back !
Where did you find them ?

As others have said, know your boundaries and stick to them during the sex.

The time to discuss expanding them is at a later date when you've had time to reflect and discover how you feel.. If you're happy moving onto him penetrating you and she is then that's great.

Also, decide in advance on a safe word that means 'I need to stop this now.

How did it go OP watching with curiosity hope it all went to plan and no awkward moments

We want updates!

Don’t we all!

Ah c'mon @spicething ... spill the beans!

Spill the beans!