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Vulva Preference

24 replies

SxWmn · 05/10/2021 21:46

Inspired by the penis size threads…

Do men have a preference with regards to vulvas?
As in bushy/bold, visible labia/labia that’s not visible, prominent clitoris/concealed clitoris?

Or do you really not give it a second thought?

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altmember · 05/10/2021 22:10

No preference, besides being well groomed (trimmed, mostly shaven). Nothing worse than getting a mouth full of pubes, or them stuck in your teeth!

TBH, it might sound surprising, but we barely get a good look at it anyway in most circumstances. Even giving oral, your face is so close you can't see much. If you showed me photo's of all my previous partner's (and there's not many of them) vulvas, then the only way I'd be able to identify them is by how they're groomed.

Alongwayfromeverything · 06/10/2021 06:37

I’m more interested in the woman it’s attached to.

gemsgv · 06/10/2021 13:07

in terms of hair, IME it's very rare to come across a woman who isn't shaved/waxed. A few leave a little tuft around the front but it's almost always all off. The last woman I saw who had a full bush was about 4 years ago and she hadn't been active for a couple of years. After a week or so she shaved the lot off completely off her own back and it stayed that way. I didn't ask her to.

And yes, it's much better that way

Maybe it's a bit different in dating circles

Rocaille · 06/10/2021 14:04

Let's face it, most men are just grateful for what they can get.

Exiledmancguy · 06/10/2021 14:21

Not really bothered, though have a preference for some hair down there rather than shaven/waxed.

cheshirebloke · 06/10/2021 17:02

@gemsgv

in terms of hair, IME it's very rare to come across a woman who isn't shaved/waxed. A few leave a little tuft around the front but it's almost always all off. The last woman I saw who had a full bush was about 4 years ago and she hadn't been active for a couple of years. After a week or so she shaved the lot off completely off her own back and it stayed that way. I didn't ask her to.

And yes, it's much better that way

Maybe it's a bit different in dating circles

I've found that it's not particularly rare. I think about half of my past partners kept a full bush the whole time. It's certainly not my preference, but I don't think I ever made my feelings known to them. Not really sure how a woman would take it?
Rosesareredd · 06/10/2021 18:50

I don’t shave completely anymore but I’ve never really been bushy anyway, I’ll trim and keep the hair short but I won’t remove it completely now, the re-growth is really irritating.

Otterhound · 06/10/2021 20:40

Unlike say cock size different vulva’s dont increase or decrease sexual pleasure.
But yes given a free choice (ie building my own vulva from scratch for example) i have a very slight preference

Catcorn · 06/10/2021 22:18

Just like the dick thread, everyone has different preferences. I have an IPL so am bare, latest FWB told me he like hairy pussy (before he had seen mine) but I get rid of hair for myself so am not worried!

blameless · 07/10/2021 21:58

From my own perspective, there are many aesthetic judgements to be made about bodies that one won't be intimate with, but most of us fall for what's between a woman's ears rather than specific body parts.
More prominent labia can be nibbled and there are different taste sensations for those who like tongue-work. Is there anyone who can't remember what a lover's parts look like?

Namechanged1010 · 08/10/2021 05:50

I do think it is also an age thing. Up to early forties then I think the norm is very much shaved/waxed (according to some straw polls on drunk girlie nights out). After that I think more mixed.

My beautician admits doing intimate waxing is a huge income stream for her!

mm40 · 08/10/2021 13:54

Straight Male perspective - well trimmed is preferable, in the same way as you would yourself. Well trimmed and arse sack and crack for the male.

mm40 · 08/10/2021 13:57

But - back to the topic - the person is the most important part and size/visibility/hidden etc is not an issue.

outdooryone · 08/10/2021 14:38

Firstly I am struggling to remember what they look like in person....

But mainly I am interested in the person that has one - and have no preference beyond that.

Violet869 · 08/10/2021 16:46

@outdooryone

Firstly I am struggling to remember what they look like in person....

But mainly I am interested in the person that has one - and have no preference beyond that.

Has it been that long….Wink
YetAnotherBlokeLurking · 08/10/2021 19:22

@Otterhound
“ Unlike say cock size different vulva’s dont increase or decrease sexual pleasure.”
?
If different cock sizes affect sexual pleasure (presumably you mean for a woman), why would you think that different vulvas don’t affect sexual pleasure for a man? They do.

outdooryone · 09/10/2021 09:03

I said in person.
Digital doesn't count. 😉

j712adrian · 10/10/2021 22:42

I'lll munch most.

BigButtons · 15/10/2021 08:30

Any man who has a preference about a vulva size isn’t one worth sleeping with.

BigButtons · 15/10/2021 08:31

[quote YetAnotherBlokeLurking]@Otterhound
“ Unlike say cock size different vulva’s dont increase or decrease sexual pleasure.”
?
If different cock sizes affect sexual pleasure (presumably you mean for a woman), why would you think that different vulvas don’t affect sexual pleasure for a man? They do.[/quote]
How so?

gemsgv · 15/10/2021 12:32

@BigButtons

Any man who has a preference about a vulva size isn’t one worth sleeping with.
what about the women in the other thread saying they only like a bigger penis?
BigButtons · 15/10/2021 14:01

@gemsgv because you don’t feel a vulva when you are having penetrative sex with a woman. You feel her vagina. A woman feels a man’s penis- length and girth.

Horseguy · 12/05/2023 14:42

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Hijinks75 · 12/05/2023 14:50

Personally my preference is for them minus clothing, other than that I really don’t care

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