Any advice? I am in a sexless relationship. Neither of us want to live apart from our DD so are not planning to separate at the moment. I am 99% sure that there is no chance of our sex life resuming. I actually would like to resurrect it just to scratch that itch, but I can tell he is not keen. I don’t feel able to find someone else to sleep with though. My situation is too complicated. At some point I will try to instigate a separation but in the meanwhile I am so frustrated. I have now spent nearly 3 years celibate and I am quite a sexual person. Re advice I am thinking sex toys / porn / DIY solutions. I might be interested in chatting to someone sexually online (although am very much unsure and not sure I could) but I definitely wouldn’t meet up with them. I haven’t tried any of these avenues and don’t know where to start. Should I just buy something from Love Honey (any recommendations?) and try and watch something arousing on TV? Feel embarrassed even posting this so please don’t be too harsh!