Feeling fat, how to get my confidence back before 1st time sex

[Aubreyaubrey]

Things are heating up with a new partner and its been about 8 months since i had sex with anyone. We have done the mutual oral which has been amazing and i know he is extremely keen to do more. But I've been worried about actual sex as im feeling fat and think ill look bad on top or look lazy underneath! Foreplay has always been better for me as i love to give but i want to be better at the actual sex. I should add we both aren't massively overweight but i just feel conscious myself. Any tips to get my mojo back?

Just get on with it! I guarantee you that you being slightly overweight will be the absolute last thing on his mind.

Do whatever it takes to suit you to be in the mood
Nice shower , fresh shave ( if that suits you ) smell nice
Nice underwear and just enjoy the moment
No man wants to make love to a bag of bones !!!!! 💐

@66babe @duvetstealer thank you both, just did a mass underwear drawer sort out and found i have absolutely tons of sexy underwear plus a variety of kinky costumes. Whatever happened to me and my confidence?

@Aubreyaubrey you just found it !!!
It was hidden under some greyed out Bridget Jones and some - no wire no support no frill but very very comfy crop top type bras
Oh sorry that was just my underwear drawer

Don't go too overboard 🤣 just something you comfortable with - dtd and then say I'm sorting out this pile what do you think of this ? Hold up one of those kinky outfits and see his reaction .. you'll know

Most importantly it's about giving YOU the confidence that has been a little hidden , not surprising with the shit 18 months we've all had !

Not sure we need an update but have a wonderful time 🤭😉

As a man I can honestly say the most sexy women who has confidence and know what they want, size etc doesn’t really matter when your with a woman who wants to have sex with you

To add, if you have gone for the oral thing first (a good plan by the way), there is nothing he has not seen.

So relax and get on with it. 8 weeks is quite long to go without, let alone 8 months. Get those knickers off 💥. Enjoy!