So, DH and I are in a mid-40s (cough, me in my late 40s). We've been together 12 years. DH has always been rather quick off the mark. But mostly it's been manageable. Decent sex life and all that.
Recently, though now I struggle to tell you now long, the "quick off the mark" is more of a problem for DH as well as me. But we're just getting ready so that we can talk about it. He comes before I'm ready, and he comes before he wants to.
What practical steps can we take to deal with this?
TIA x