Most of the vaginas are nicer than mine

[Toffeenosedranger]

A bit embarrassing, but wouldn’t discuss this in real life. I’ve never really liked my vagina. It’s quite tucked away, no inner lips showing etc, but it’s quite big? As in the outer lips. Having watched Naked attraction, the majority I saw were very neat, tucked away ones, mine just seems a bit different, goes quite low and big outer lips. Does anyone have similar, no idea if this is normal or not

@cookiecreampie

I also didn't realise how varied they could be. I didn't realise some women had bits that hang out, but I think they do show a lot of those type on Naked Attraction. Makes me thankful for the one I've got to honest.

See, it’s comments like that, that don’t help. It’s as if you’re suggesting the ones that ‘hang out’ aren’t the nice ones.

It’s like someone coming on here and saying ‘my tits are like socks with golf balls in’ and someone saying ‘I didn’t realise people had tits like that.... I’m glad I’m not one those people’

[quote Toffeenosedranger]@Osirus Thank you, didn’t expect nasty responses tbh, will ask them to move it[/quote]

The outer lips are the labia majora. The big ones.

With how you are, they hide the inside ones.
Labia minora. The little ones.

This is super standard.

And as everyone has said, nobody minds.

Having said that, recently I was given a compliment about mine as in ohhhh I knew it ....... that is my favourite type and is perfect. I said type? What type? Are there types? No way! And he said yes way. He'd seen more than me as I've only seen one. With my phone between my legs.

So maybe guys (and same sex women) have preferences in the same way I have with men.

But your lips sound very very textbook. I think you just need to hear how lovely you look.

All vulvas are amazing in their own way, they’re what make us unique.

@Toffeenosedranger I'm not sure why you feel like this but I'll address it from a man perspective on the chance it has do do with how we feel about it.

I'm going to break the boy code a bit here but I'll tell you a secret:-

Us men actually don't give a flying monkies what a fanny looks like, how big the lips are, whether it's an innie or outie, colour or indeed anything else. We're just eternally grateful we get to play.

All fannies are different. I've seen a fair few and never did it even cross my mind that once was 'different' than the other. I was far more concerned with 'other' things at the time.

@MyAltAccount

I think v nice you said that, v nice it's true, and for my own previous post then I guess he was just being v nice to me.!

It sounds like we can honestly all relax here.

I'm far more worried about thighs and tummy than pussy, I have to confess. But maybe I'm over thinking that too.

Seriously? The op asks a fair question and she gets all these pathetic replies.

Pull your heads in people. If it was someone out looking for a wank there are far better places than Mumsnet. The Internet is full of porn sites.

Even if you described your most intimate part right down to the finest detail - who cares? NOBODY knows who the fuck you are in real life.

@crestar Well said.

Now MN has moved this to the sex board and has confirmed OP has been around a fair while, I wonder if the urchins who decided to lay into her as 'She's a pervy bloke looking for a wank' would now like to apologise? I won't hold my breath.

@MyAltAccount - Thank you for confirming this. I wonder if men feel the same about their penis too? I’ve always wondered this.

@SparklingStars10

In my experience, we're not too concerned about what we look like down there unless we're on the short size.

We're more concerned about not being able to keep him up; that's the biggest man worry. And of course, just thinking about it when he's due to perform makes it much more likely to happen.

I had a friend whose new girlfriend got up and left because he couldn't get it up the first time.

@MyAltAccount - Yes I can imagine men have their own securities, just as much as us.

That’s awful about your friend, I wonder if women feel it’s because the man is not attracted to them but really it’s the opposite.

@SparklingStars10

You have no idea. You can be as turned on as it's possible to be but the old boy downstairs is having none of it. It really does have a mind of its own sometimes and can be a complete disappointment.

I have a couple of situations myself but luckily I was with mature women who didn't take it personally.

@MyAltAccount - I guess that’s the beauty of being with someone you really connect with and that can be hard to find, not just sexually but emotionally too.

@MyAltAccount

I don't know how mature i am but if someone went soft I would think best not to make a big deal of it. It hasn't happened in my presence but if it did, I would be quietly solicitous but that might mean just taking the pressure off completely and going to sleep on his chest.

I'm sorry OP that you feel as you do. Naked Attraction is never going to be representative of the wide variety of women's bodies, vaginas and vulvas included.

I beg to differ, I caught an episode last week on naked attraction and instantly thought OMG! What is that hanging out?. You are likely being paranoid, I think also there is a natural tendency to notice more the ones that are different from yourself when you see the prog, as I'm surprised by how many are not tucked away on that series. But all in all, it's good for showing how different we all are, any shape is fine as long as it all works, who cares?

As another man, would just like to echo what @MyAltAccount says.
In my 30+ years of having sex I’ve never come across a vigina that I’ve not liked, they all look different but that’s part of the fun of sex.

I just hope the various women who have seen my penis feel the same way