Most of the vaginas are nicer than mine

[Toffeenosedranger]

A bit embarrassing, but wouldn’t discuss this in real life. I’ve never really liked my vagina. It’s quite tucked away, no inner lips showing etc, but it’s quite big? As in the outer lips. Having watched Naked attraction, the majority I saw were very neat, tucked away ones, mine just seems a bit different, goes quite low and big outer lips. Does anyone have similar, no idea if this is normal or not

Do your lips hang low?
Do they wobble to and fro?
Can you tie ‘em in a knot?
Can you tie ‘em in a bow?

Wait a minute, that’s not right...

They’re a friendly bunch on the Sex topic OP, if you felt like you wanted to discuss it somewhere else. AIBU is probably the very worst place you could post something like this. Not your fault, just not the right target audience.

[quote Toffeenosedranger]@KaleSlayer No, have posted for years, different name, sensitive topic. Was not expecting this feedback,[/quote]
If you've posted here for years you should have known how apparent new posters talking about genitals are viewed.

As I nurse I’ve seen hundreds of vaginas up close of various ages. They are all different and the anatomy is rarely exactly as it’s detailed in medical diagrams. Your vulva sounds as normal as any other woman’s and as long as it’s functioning as it should I wouldn’t get hung up on how it looks.

@FlibbertyGiblets I didn’t want detailed or any descriptions of others! 😩I’m sorry I’ve obviously worded it very wrong

Presumably if the poster isn't new she could post in the sex topic. Perhaps she could ask MNHQ to move it not new though according to the OP

On a similar thread, a poster once commented that their vagina looked “like a punched lasagne.”

@MNHQ
Can you look at moving this to the sex topic for OP.

Mine's great.

Gynaecologists ask to take photos of it so they can show their students what a perfect vulva looks like..

I also model for plastic surgeons so they can show patients what they can aspire to.

Sorry you feel yours is not up to scratch.

@ghostyslovesheets

Presumably if the poster isn't new she could post in the sex topic. Perhaps she could ask MNHQ to move it not new though according to the OP

I know; that's what I meant.

@sleepylittlebunnies Thank you 🙏 I just wish it looked better I guess, like some I saw, I’ve never liked it

You don’t expect this feedback ?

Give over. If you are a regular poster, you know how this goes.

@Osirus Thank you, didn’t expect nasty responses tbh, will ask them to move it

I was a nurse for 25 years and naked attraction vulvas didn't look like the vulvas I generally saw on the wards which were much bigger and messier.

Honestly OP it’s exactly the kind of post someone with a big pervy itch to scratch would post - I’d ask MN to move it over to sex

I think the ones on Naked Attraction have all had surgery or they only go on because they have nest little Vulvas or else else the lighting works really well! Honestly, who really cares? You’re alive and healthy , we’re women. Be proud of your bits!!!

What constitutes a "nicer" vagina?

Got you Sooty - sorry way past bedtime

@ghostyslovesheets

Got you Sooty - sorry way past bedtime

OP, people have a bad day then come on here still in a grump, say things they’d never say to your face and press send. Just Google for some pics and you’ll see that vaginas (yes the fucking insides, vagina police) vary in length and width and tightness, labias vary in colour and size and protrusion, clitorises vary in positioning, size and protrusion... they are like ears, noses, feet and everything else. You’re normal. Whatever normal is.

this is why you should keep your pubic hair-then you can't see it and worry about it

@ghostyslovesheets I stupidly didn’t think of it like that and it took a lot to write it and now feeling really red faced, have reported it to be removed, or better still deleted and won’t be doing that again 😩

Your Vulva/Vagina is beautiful, it's like a fingerprint everyone has a different one but I bet you don't get sexual partners turning you down when they get a look do you? It's your vagina, it's a part of who you are and what makes you who you are and it is absolutely fine. We're women we don't need another reason to criticise ourselves especially not one that very few people get the luxury of seeing.

Personally I never look at mine and couldn't care less what it looks like.
I am a real person, not an air brushed or photo shopped to death model or actress who has likely had surgery.
Mine has served me well and no complaints.
But then it is not something for likes .

@DaphneDuBois Thanks, I did mean the outside part, I will Google or might leave it now! 🙈