Increasing friction and reducing lubrication!

[pinkrocker]

This is an odd issue to ask, but as OH is skilled in making sure I'm incredibly aroused, there is a LOT of lubrication produced by me and we both need more friction. There are loads of lubricants around on Lovehoney etc, but nothing to reduce the issue. Any ideas?

Old age!

A towel? I hate too much lube because it decreases friction (and I'm past menopause) I use a towel to blot or wipe the extra away.

Until recently I was of the opinion that having towels around for sex took the spontaneity away, or suggested that there was something wrong with bodily secretions, but with my current partner we are exploring much more and discovering new sensations and body responses, a towel has become essential! And we have them within reach.

And try positions where you can move your legs together once your man is inside you. Narrows the vaginal canal and gives him a tighter feel and more friction....plenty of suggestions on the internet...

OP - there's a thread here www.mumsnet.com/Talk/sex/4179509-Too-wet

and antihistamines are suggested

Shower before bed... Stops me getting too wet!!